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LA44
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am eating my steel cut oats with yummy brown sugar and devonshire creme, coffee and juice while H is in conference.

I will get to the point now! We are having a good time but there is a tension here between us. We are not bickering but I feel we have not relaxed yet. We have not seen the AP but I was having an anxiety attack (sounds dramatic but nothing I couldn't handle) just as we were approaching the hotel. I did not tell H it was happening but I will today and will be more open if that happens again. He has been taking my hand, introducing me to people - I do know about 10 people here includ my FIL + his wife. They know and have been great since D-day. His wife N has been a great support to me.

I feel sad when people here see me and say, "you're real! We thought we would never see you again!" It's been 5 years since my last attemdance but....."I'm baaaack!

Anyway, I asked H to please let me know where AP is when we enter a space. So far, nothing. Grant it there were 600 people around last night but she was not to be seen. I am sure that will change today. I just want to see her and get it over with. Mc said to be ready as the ground will shift under me. Ok. Got it. Then I will look at the beautiful Rockies and enjoy the companion program events I have signed up for.

Going for a work out today. That will be good for me.
LA


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2228 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Be strong. Communicate your feelings. Work together. And Have fun!!!
You can do it!!!


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
Rebreather
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Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, do keep him in the loop as to what you are feeling. Teamwork all the way.

Hang in there!!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6359 | Registered: Jan 2011
Scubachick
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How was the conference?

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