My WW had her first IC session this morning. It must have really shaken her up as she has been doing a lot of crying and has been very withdrawn since the appointment. Is this a good sign or a bad sign? Or am I trying see something where nothing exists?
I have not (and will not) ask about her IC, but WW volunteered the therapist called her out on ‘some stuff’ and told her if she expected to still be married in five years she was going to have to stop lying to herself as the first step. I guess he was pretty blunt about it when he told her. She also has some homework to start before her next session (Thursday morning). I hope she is willing to continue with this guy. Our agreement is if she doesn’t like him after three sessions she can find a different one.
WW is also asking why I haven’t questioned her about the affair. I told her I needed to wait until we are in MC. That I felt MC would be a safer environment for me to ask and her to answer. She said she is dreading MC and my questions but can’t undo what she has done. Again, I am wondering if her dreading MC is a good sign, bad sign, or no sign.
Me–BS age 60
Her -- WS age 58
Married for 33 years
One child, 30yrs
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Camalus wore the horns for a brief period of time