I am really proud of WH (when do you start calling them FWH??) neways...after our rough week last week we had another big heart to heart. he was feeling really down on himself thinking there was no hope for our relationship anymore and he was tired of hurting me...i spelled out exactly what i needed one more time.
That i was going to have horrible days and he needed to comfort me...it's his job...he caused this mess. That when i have nightmares or questions that I will need him to answer anything and everything to ease my mind.
he's been doing everything i've asked of him and much more. i'm really proud and happy that he's working so hard finally.
it' gives me hope for the future...that maybe it actually is possible to survive this...Me: 26 BS Him: 29 WH
Together since Dec 2005
officially done 10-30-13
Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.