The most important thing I've done is to concentrate on ME. You really can't fill all your time with friends and activities. Find things that you like doing on your own, and pour yourself into them.
As your independence grows, so will your confidence. That'll make it easier to not fall in love with everyone who smiles in your direction (something I've been guilty of whenever I've been single).Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous