Wow all the stories are the same.
I pushed her to the affair because I was being needy and feeling down about work.
this time two years ago she suffered from depression and I went out of my way to fix her, I forced her to go out and make friends, I stayed in every night and completly gave up on any social to look after my kids so she could get out.
Then when I started feeling down the first thing she said was "I cant handle you like this".
I quickly got over it but when I noticed she was getting distant I tried to talk but she said nothing was wrong, of course I got clingy, She would look after my kids until I finished my work then she would go to hers, after that rather than coming home to us she would stay out until 3 in the morning with her friends.
Now here we are almost 8 weeks later and she said she didn't mean to start developing feelings for him, ILYBINILWY, we can never get back together because she cant get over me calling her a whore.
I gave up any exsistence of a social life to make her and my family happy now I have nothing.
And last night she sent a random text telling me how good I looked in a photo she saw?
Sorry about the rant I just got angry reading about how everyones story is pretty much the same, you just cant trust anyone but yourself.