Before dday, h and I shared an email, I never even thought of checking anything. It just was not even a blip on the radar. Our email is how I discovered the a.
Ow sent sexually suggestive email to h and he did not delete, hell, he didn't even close the email window.
Now, I check everything, not every day anymore, but I do check.
I don't know if he checks mine. It doesn't matter to me, he can if he wants to. I did change my passwords on everything when he left. Like someone else said, he became the enemy, it was a way to protect myself.
Now he has my passwords again. Some of them make him cringe, like "freedom" or "broken1"
He did check my phone one night, while drinking. Went through every contact and call.
He texted an old co-worker of mine, a man, that I had been in touch with because he has been diagnosed with Lou Gehrigs disease.
It was humiliating, 11:00 at night, texting this desperately ill man.
I don't know why he did this. I think he was feeling guilty and wanted to find something to put on me, trying to find something to justify himself, blameshift, avoid responsibility for his actions.
Anyway, nothing to hide, so look away.