Topic: I can't say anything nice, so I'm saying it here..
Member # 38377
| Posted: 9:36 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Dear STBX PIECE OF SHIT,
If you say you will take care of Boy Scouts, fucking do it already. If he misses this camping trip coming up because you always wait until the last minute to do things and only haven slow-ass internet your brother hacked for you and no printer, heads will fucking roll. I'm not your fucking secretary. Either take responsibility for the things we agree you will handle or just don't and I will handle it.
And you need to pay me some fucking child support. I don't need your sob stories about your money situation when you are spending an exorbitant about of money on your fucking slut, whorebag, lower than dirt, abusive mistress. Supporting your children SHOULD COME FIRST, not only if you have some money left over. You average about 6 overnights a month now, so you have to help me support the kids!!
And your email saying, "Don't cry Butterfly. It's not your fault you aren't good enough to find someone to love you," is totally fucking NONE OF YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. I won't tell you if I have someone, and I won't tell you if I don't. Again, NONE OF YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. I realize you were trying to bait me into revealing to you my dating situation, but too bad, so sad. You don't deserve my feelings or any information about my personal life unless it affects the kids. And yeah, I will give you the courtesy of letting you know when I plan to introduce the kids to my significant other. Which is the complete opposite of what you did you fucking horrible piece of shit, bringing that homewrecking slut around my kids for months, maybe years, before I have ever even heard of the bitch. And then you had the damn nerve to force the kids to keep it a secret?? FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FUCK OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Rot in hell you slimy piece of shit.
BW~ 35, Two Darling Sons~ 10 and 6
Filed D 11/2012
Posts: 1374 | Registered: Feb 2013
Member # 32554
| Posted: 9:43 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
WHEE! That's right, Butterfly! Let's get some marshmallows on sticks & toast 'em, 'cuz this girl is on FIRE!!!
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
Posts: 8785 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 34697
| Posted: 9:56 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
BG, that was an amazingly epic rant.
FTG just doesn't do it justice...
Posts: 4204 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 35229
| Posted: 10:19 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
What a collosal piece of shit. On the deadbeat front and on the goading front.
What a joke. It would not be at all hard to find a deadbeat dad, cheating, lying, scumbag user piece of shit if that's what you were after.
BTDT. I'm aiming higher next time, you slimy fuckwit.
Crickets all the way. FACT: If life was so fucking rosy for him he would not be goading you.
No ego kibbles for him.
Let him gorge himself on crickets.
I hope you have your L onto this. CS isn't optional. Don't even discuss it with him again - send out the dogs, like yesterday. Dude needs a wake up call and a legal 2x4 upside the head.
What is WRONG with these people?
Sending all of the love and strength I can muster to Phoenix1 and her family.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
Posts: 4565 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 33735
| Posted: 7:33 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013|
M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."
Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 32962
| Posted: 8:33 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013|
I smell somebody's biscuits burning!
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
Posts: 782 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 35059
| Posted: 8:42 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013|
Best. Rant. Ever.
Made my morning!
He is a moron. He lost you!! He lost a clever, confident, amazing partner.
Rock on sister-girl!!
married 26 yrs
Divorce final 3-13-13
Just trust yourself, then you will know how to live.
Posts: 480 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: the south
Member # 40274
| Posted: 9:59 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013|
I enjoyed it. Awesome.
They still want you to be their "mommy" when it comes to the kids. What a f**ing Moron. They are all the same.
Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...
Posts: 406 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
Member # 40359
| Posted: 8:05 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013|
Love this! Good for you!
Posts: 129 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 33062
| Posted: 9:17 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013|
Awesome rant! Of course I'm sorry you have to deal with that f'ing pos worthless sorry excuse of a dad and human being. I'm right there with you!
Please tell me he really didn't send you an email saying that? Please?!
I would seriously have to hold back a throat punch! The nerve!
Mine sent me a guideline that I was to follow before I dated.....lmfao!
Who the hell do these narcissists think they are!
Posts: 662 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 31468
| Posted: 11:19 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013|
ButterflyGirl rocks! Don't ever forget that lady! FTSTBXPOS!
Great and well deserved rant!
Together 9 yrs
Status: Divorced 4/27/11
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Member # 36060
| Posted: 8:53 AM, September 20th (Friday), 2013|
Don't bother discussing the child support issue with him. Do you have a support order? If he hasn't met his obligations, call your local CS enforcement agency and get the ball rolling.
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
2 DS and DD all w/autism
Posts: 707 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
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