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click4it
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need to get a bridal shower gift for a 20 year old ...

I have not been to a bridal shower in years and I haven't a clue what to get except for sexy nightgown or something like that, but for a 20yo?? I can't see myself doing that.

Idea please! thanks in advance.


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gift card to Victoria Secret, tucked into a VS bag/case of some sort with a scent or two.


Me - 42
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

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Posts: 6077 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does she have a bridal registry?? Check The Knot (website); many brides to be list their registry there.

Otherwise, I'd buy her a household item of some kind--or a gift card.


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fireproof
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would check the Bridal Registry

If they are moving in together something for their new home

If they drink wine or beer wine glasses or pilsner glasses

A spa certificate for the bride



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click4it
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

they already live together and have a 1 yo child...

I totally like the Victoria Secret with a sent lotion inside...gosh haven't been to that store in YEARS. Do they have a plus size section? that's a factor.


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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Posts: 25509 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm pretty sure they don't have plus sizes, click.

Bummer. That was a good idea! Maybe do something similar from a Dept. store that DOES have plus sizes??


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If VS doesn't have plus sizes, you can still do the case/bag and scent from VS, then get a gift card somewhere else.


Me - 42
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

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Posts: 6077 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
click4it
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I already feel so bad for her that her family tells her she needs to lose weight and I really don't want to get something from a plus sized store. She's 20 and you know how 20 year olds are...very sensitive to everything. So, I'm thinking the lotions and maybe a gift card to Target or a general store might be good....

I love these ideas, thanks everyone!


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25509 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really don't want to get something from a plus sized store.
Right. DON'T do that!! Just a store that carries plus sizes, in addition to other sizes.

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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 12:54 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I believe Frederick's carries larger sizes.

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Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A gift card to Bed Bath and Beyond. New couples always need something for the house. I am afraid if you give her a gift card to target she buy diapers instead of something for herself and groom. Nothing wrong with that except diapers won't make them feel special, kwim?


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