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User Topic: Most epic goodbye. ever.
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since this forum is for divorce/separation, I wanted to let all of you in on the most epic separation. I am hoping someone looking for separation advice will see this... It is posted by Karmita on the General forum. The heading is: Update on he doesn't know that I know.

I am hoping that anyone considering separation reads her post first. Her sister helped her hold it all together until she had all the evidence she needed.

Enjoy!


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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thenon-goddess
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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[This message edited by thenon-goddess at 12:54 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)]


Status: divorcing
Typing on an iPhone - please excuse the typos!

Posts: 1238 | Registered: Feb 2011
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yesh, thenon-goddess, I agree. I have been sucked in before. I did give her a hug, though, just in case.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't think it was that unbelievably epic.

Am I that naive?

[This message edited by sparkysable at 12:56 PM, September 20th (Friday)]


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3176 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IDK, sparky, but shopping in a sex store with the OW and buying a huge butt plug is pretty amazing.

And, then the day of the big party, smearing shit on the butt plug? I guess it could be considered epic.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought it was epic because the man walks into an empty apt with pages of messages - evidence of the affair.

Plus, she was able to keep her wits about her while with the ow...something I was not able to do once I found out...

The non-goddess might be right, however....


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 1969 | Registered: Jan 2012
thenon-goddess
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't think it was that unbelievably epic.
Am I that naive?

Yeah, the butt plug shopping with the OW was what put it into epic territory for me! I tend to be skeptical because I have been burned several times on message boards (I belonged to a lot of pregnancy/childbirth/toddler boards when I was younger), but who knows - I'm sure stranger/more epic things have happened!


Status: divorcing
Typing on an iPhone - please excuse the typos!

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HeartStings
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds a little contrived to me (and juvenile), but maybe I'm skeptical about everything these days.

Posts: 109 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: New England
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would love to believe that story too--------but nothing has made me laugh so hard as that thread, in a long while.


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

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sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will agree with all of you...keeping the secret, moving all of his shit out, putting up a sign and balloons so he thought he was walking into his own surprise party...I could see that. I kept a the secret and collected evidence for 3 weeks, put all his shit into a storage unit and changed the locks, so that part I could see.

The shopping at the sex shop with OW...yeah, I could see that being a bit over the top. She had me until that point. Maybe it really happened, maybe it didn't. I'm pretty skeptical.

However, that thread had me laughing.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3176 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
PricklePatch
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My post won't be epic, but it is how I feel. I personally feel this thread has become sad and unfortunate. If this were my story, I would never post here again. I would see the lack of belief and just disappear. I ask for a safe place to come for support and this is what I get. I realize I am not one of the frequent posters, I have a hard time writing and this is forum just became less safe for me. I find this thread incredibly sad.

[This message edited by PricklePatch at 7:52 AM, September 22nd (Sunday)]


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Fwh
sorry post on my tablet

Posts: 279 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: pricklepatch
Deeply Scared
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Red  Posted: 8:50 AM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

homewrecked2011...

Starting a thread to single out a brand new member is very rude and hurtful.

I can only imagine how I would feel if I were pointed out and doubted on a site that was built for support.

The next time you have questions about a members authenticity, please come to a moderator instead.

Thank you.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 8:56 AM, September 22nd (Sunday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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thenon-goddess
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I apologize, I was the first one to express my doubt. I will edit my post accordingly -


Status: divorcing
Typing on an iPhone - please excuse the typos!

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