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Pass
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was just rummaging through Plenty of Fish, and found a woman who lists first as her criteria: You must be willing to take criticism, and work to improve.

Ha! No thanks. Spent 17.5 years married to that.

But at least she's honest!

[This message edited by pass at 11:27 AM, September 20th (Friday)]


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

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Posts: 1828 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe it's her!

AJ's MOM


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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL at least she is honest, but something tells me...she will be single for awhile


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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmmm . . .what a great way to help prospective matches weed through the profiles! I wonder how many responses she is getting. Like "Oh my gosh you are EXACTLY what I'm looking for! I have so many faults and have been waiting so very patiently for someone like you to point them out and give me the motivation to fix them and morph myself into someone you could love. Please, please email me as soon as possible so we can get started."


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UndecidedinMA
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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So she is announcing - I am a bitch who will tell you what you should do/say etc..


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Posts: 1005 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: MA
Pass
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So are y'all saying I shouldn't ask her out?

If I were to remain true to my past behaviours, this is the woman for me!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1828 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Pass
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And, baby, do I ever have shit to start working on.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1828 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My ex wrote something really similar into our wedding vows. I should have run for the fucking hills!

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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's hysterical!


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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

as A Buddhist I know that in life there is suffering and it is cause by desire and greed among other things. I was never told that it will be cause for a woman and her demands to obey. LOL


Pain and suffering is part of life, but I choose to feel love and compassion for all people excluding no one.

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UndecidedinMA
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I were to remain true to my past behaviours, this is the woman for me!

Oh hell yes - she is a gem!!


ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And, baby, do I ever have shit to start working on.


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