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Shocked  Posted: 10:15 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My STBX stopped by the house tonight. With a friend (female, not the AP). She wanted to show off her house before it sells. She was shit faced, we hugged awkwardly and i was polite and accommodating. Small talk. Gave them each a beer. She held her cat for a while. I am so proud of myself. No regrets. No sympathy. I again offered her the house for what we owe. If I can walk away from this nightmare without a dime I will at least have peace.

Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 773 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you

BS (me): 38
WH: 38
Separated: 9/2/2010
DDay: 10/2010 PA with OW. Married 13 yrs, Together 20
Two kids, 8 (daughter) & 4(son)
Divorced 12/2013
OW moves 10 min's away from kids and I with my Ex. 6/2014.

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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You did really well. Detachment is a blessing for us BSs still in pain from the betrayl.

Unfortunately, we do have to sometimes be cordial to them. Sending mojo she takes your house offer or it sells quickly.
Hugs, you're doing Ok!

[This message edited by gma56 at 3:35 PM, September 21st (Saturday)]

It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((sunsets)))) You have every right to be proud of yourself. Hope you are quickly able to be freed from the house one way or another.

You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana

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