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User Topic: Great start to IC!
ccw82
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Content  Posted: 5:47 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm feeling really optimistic because I finally started IC, and I had two great sessions this week! 1DH also started IC. Since I started, we haven't faught at all! I've been able to control my anger and overwhelming sadness, and turn it into positive, constructive conversations with 1DH.

I really hope this feeling lasts! I really want our marriage to work. I know that he has to work just as hard, but I'm hoping he's taking a step in the right direction with IC as well so that we both have the tools to heal!


Me: 31
WH (1DumbHusband): 35
Married 5 years, together 7 years.
D-Day: June 17th, 2013
TTs that came out as late as January 2014

"One is not tempted by that he does not want."


Posts: 136 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Dallas, TX
RidingHealingRd
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Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is great that you found an IC that you are comfortable with. I was so fortunate to find one...without her wisdom I probably would have jumped ship in those early days. We are entering year 4 next month and life is so much better.

Continued success in IC and R.


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2094 | Registered: Nov 2011
iwillNOT
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad you are having a good beginning with your IC! I hope it helps both you and your husband as you begin your work in healing.


Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 470 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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