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User Topic: Stories that made you smile
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had a great weekend with my boys. Since I often come on here to bitch, and/or get some support, I thought I would start this thread to tell a good story from the weekend. Y'all should chime in with yours too. They don't have to be big stories, just ones that made you smile.

The bathroom in my apt is quite small, and doesn't have much storage space. 10 always leaves his toothbrush on the shelf right in front of the Kleenex box. Whenever I pull out a Kleenex, his toothbrush almost falls. I move it to where it is supposed to be, give him shit, and then it's right back there after he uses it again.

This happened again on Saturday, so I went into the living room and said, "If I knock your toothbrush onto that dirty patch of floor beside the toilet, do you know what I'll do?"

He looked up from his iPod. "Throw it out?"

"Nope. I'll put it back on the shelf ... and say nothing."

He got up, went into the bathroom, and put it away properly. And that's where he kept putting it all weekend.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2112 | Registered: Jan 2013
LadyQ
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Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful! Way better than constant reminders!


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
LadyQ
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

While I don't have anything that fun to share, I did have a good weekend with dd16. Well, until dd7 came home and let us know that dad's girlfriend is moving in next door to him. After their dad told them he was breaking it off. So, what little ground dd16 gained in therapy this weekend just got yanked out from under. But at least she and I had a few laughs. Watched a movie, went shopping for stuff to put on her boyfriend's garter for homecoming ( this is Texas, after all).


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Redecorated my bedroom so that it is mine, not ours. Strange to only consider what i want.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
SBB
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



"Mummy, when you hurt yourself can you kiss yourself better or do you need Nonna (my mum) to kiss it?".


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Nope. I'll put it back on the shelf ... and say nothing." He got up, went into the bathroom, and put it away properly. And that's where he kept putting it all weekend.



"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Triple - I did that a year ago and it was nice to pick out whatever I liked and to not have to think of someone else's opinion!

Hmm, this weekend...a nice story is that while I didn't have my kids and missed them of course, I got a bunch done around the house and feel good about it. Yay!



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devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing from this weekend comes to mind, but a while ago, I came home to my two teens laughing histarically together. They can't breathe to tell me what's so damn funny, they just point to the patio doors.

Upon further investigation, I take a good look at my dog on the other side. My two bright, charming teenagers had drawn eyebrows on the dog with black eyeliner. He's a Sheltie with a white and tan face.

Makes me feel so good to know I've raised such caring, well-rounded people!!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5527 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At least it was eyeliner and not Sharpie! LOL! That's pretty funny.



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LadyQ
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Helpless  Posted: 7:51 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Devastated, that's good stuff!

Not sure how that weird frowny face got there??

[This message edited by LadyQ at 8:26 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)]


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My two bright, charming teenagers had drawn eyebrows on the dog with black eyeliner.


Mine would have totally used Sharpies.....


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8090 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Poor dog looked perpetually surprised for a week. He's a hyperactive Sheltie! You try washing his face!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5527 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
lost4now
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My 15 year old daughter told me this weekend that I am prettier than my STBXH 5 year affair partner!!!

I LOVED IT!!!!!


BS - ME 43
WH 44
Married 20 years
DDay #1 12/28/07
DDay #2 9/18/08
DDay #3 12/28/08
Dday #4 11/18/10 (same OW)
Dday #5 8/22/12 (same OW)
2 beautiful daughters
"Love grows where it is nurtured and dies where it is not!"

Posts: 841 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: NJ
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