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User Topic: So, um, I guess it's official...
wildbananas
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Content  Posted: 3:55 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

... I have an SO.

Saw the roses guy again this weekend and long story short, he asked to be exclusive (which I kind of was, anyway... multidating isn't for me) and I said yes.

A little scared, a little nervous but happy. I think this is a good one.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15393 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SQUEEEEE!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25343 | Registered: Aug 2011
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!!!!!!!


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6443 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sweet!!!

Happy Dancin' for you!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21051 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1741 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
Newlease
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great! Hope everything just keeps getting better for you.

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

Posts: 7690 | Registered: Aug 2005
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OK you'll have to bring him to the next g2g so that we can all question him and make sure he is good enough.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52199 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best wishes!


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7813 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy for you!!!

Posts: 35192 | Registered: Mar 2011
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, all! And yes, Moo, I'll bring him to the next g2g. I'll also be sure to fill him in on your penchant for pedis so he can ask you all about it.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15393 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20170 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3359 | Registered: Dec 2011
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will expect a complete debrief in 2.5 weeks.


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17328 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12149 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Y'all heard it here first, WB is throwin' a G2G at her house so we can all meet RG. Moo, SAz, Empress, WB2, book your flights now-IT'S PARTY TIME.

Today truly is a good day.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1741 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations

Very happy for you. :)


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 607 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

whoo-hooo

This will be so fun


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52199 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy for you!!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4166 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
cayc
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

!!!!!!


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3089 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
persevere
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4516 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
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