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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm new here but thought as a bi woman myself I might throw my ten penneth in the pot.
I am bi and have NEVER cheated. This whole 'exploring my sexuality' stuff is utter shite. It's like saying I felt this need to explore other dick. Its nothing more than an excuse and one I would not accept. I didn't choose to be born bi. I did choose to never cheat...simples.

It wasn't my fault; my bucket was broken
NC = no new hurts

Posts: 38 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: England
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

An interesting post from LeopoldB and he makes quite a few valid points; you could take his advice, give up on love, accept that your wife would cheat occasionally, the marriage would probably end when the kids left home and the sex would be a succession of quickies. Its not a bad deal if you consider that the kids would be cared for in a unified family and your physical needs would be met.

I suspect its either that or divorce; she doesn't care for you, doesn't respect you, but wants to keep the family intact. LeopoldB's option is worth considering if the childrens welfare is your main concern. Who knows, your wife may change her mind in the forthcoming years and invest back into the relationship..

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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, December 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello all, its been some time since I have written. I thought I needed to provide an update to all those that made comments when I went from finding out to now.

Summary: We have discontinued the MC She has given up and stated that it is the way I make her feel. When we talk, she feels bad.

In the past, I have caught her texting the same number 1000s of times a month, sexting that number, lying about where she was (She flew out of town for the weekend)

In the end, this hurts like nothing else and I feel for my kids but it is time to move on. Or at least take a break, re-center, and focus on myself and my kids.

I am not sure where that leaves me If you have any advice on my next steps, I am all ears. I know another woman would feel good, but I might need some time to recover/heal/and become a better person.

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