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User Topic: XW and OM are married
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

strongerdaybyday: When I found out about it I was very sad for a while, then I decided I didn't care very much. It's weird to think that she has a different last name though.

little turtle: My daughter has been very upbeat and happy about everything. I don't know how she really feels.

Everyone in general: I think I've moved on to the point where I don't feel the raw anger.. just indifference on that front. Don't feel like I miss my XW either. It's just kind of a mind screw to go through another milestone. I'm not even sure that I'd be happy to see things fail, but who knows, you can't ever really predict these things. Maybe it would be amusing. It's just.. you know, if I wanted her back or to prove her wrong or something, maybe I'd feel more like I'd be seeing some karma, but I've worked really hard to detach and I don't want her back. I figure if she's occupied with OM she's leaving me alone mostly.

On days when I am feeling very low sometimes I get old memories and I feel the sadness of betrayal, but this is not often.

Also, I had like three or four months warning that it would probably happen this month, so I guess I had some time to process it. When I first found out it was really devastating.


Me: born 1982.
DD: born 2006 (I have abt 80% custody).
My D-Day was April 2012. Divorced Jul 2013.

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