Australia doesn't have it but I have read here that monies can be recovered if they are blowing it on their whores.
These two quotes don't add up.
I have had them for at least a month and he has only had one overnite!
I think I may ask for 70/30. Right now its 60/40.
Right now its actually 100/0.
The longer he continues like this the higher the likelihood that he'll end up with no custody.
I'm with Merlin and Tesla - document EVERYTHING and take it to your L.
What does your L say about MIA Father of the Year?
He isn't going to help you with extra food bills. You wouldn't have the extra food bills if he took them 40 or even 30 - that is why its so important to get the split right. If he isn't doing it now he is unlikely to start doing it later.