Some things I've been without for awhile, that I've noticed are recently finding their way back into my life:
A good night's sleep
Most music (some lyrics are still too close to home... but a few months ago I couldn't listen to anything)
Movies/shows with even the slightest romantic undertones. These were also unbearable not long ago. Now, I'm mostly okay with it.
More days I don't cry, than days when I do.
Dreams and plans about the future, MY future.
Hope for better days to come.
Contentment in spending time alone. As an only child, this is old hat for me... I just had to remember how.
My grip on these things is still slippery... some times I have a really bad day and it all flies right out the window. But, it flies back in a lot sooner lately.
Feeling so much love for everyone here at SI!
Me: BS, 45 Him: XWH, 45
Together 8 yrs, married for 5
DDay 04.10.13 Divorced 05.14.13
Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling