It may take a while, but I hear it always comes. More when you're not looking!
It's been 5 yrs for me and I honestly feel like I've been hit a few times, but not XH and OWife...no, not ever. #Boo!
Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
1. I made 15 copies of every single smutty email, text message, and chat session (about 75 pages each bundle) and mailed them to her parents, sisters & husbands, brothers & wives, her employer, her best friend, the head of the department of the company she was interviewing with at the time, and her ex-husband since they were in a custody battle. Best $100 I ever spent!
2. I reported her behavior on company time using company resources (cell, land line, and expense account) to her employer.
3. I also informed her employer that she was a regular pot smoker and that they might want to random drug test her.
#2 & #3 got her terminated from a near 6 figure a year job and the packet I sent to the potential employer resulted in her not being hired.
Now, after all that she had the nerve to threaten to sue me and since I am in an alienation of affection state, I invited her to do just that so I could sue her ass right back. I also reminded her that I still had about 15 naked pictures she sent to my husband and I was just waiting for a reason to mail those out as well as use them as Exhibits X, Y, & Z.
Let's hope she learned a lesson or two.