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User Topic: 5 years out - A few thoughts
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Member # 33549
Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me-BS 51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.

Posts: 619 | Registered: Oct 2011
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2670 | Registered: Aug 2012
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Default  Posted: 11:34 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know this is an old post, but I stumbled upon it and it really spoke to me! Just wondered if there were others out there who might benefit from this wisdom and experience!

Me: BS 31
WH: 29 (theseseatsRtaken)
DS: getting close to 1
Together 10 years, married 2.
DD1: 8th of Jan 2014
DD2: 10th of Jan 2014
NC: 8th of Jan
In hopeful R!

Posts: 383 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Australia
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, June 19th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you

Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, online profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
False R many different times fromJan/13 till Dec/13
On the fence.....

Posts: 152 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
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Member # 34836
Default  Posted: 1:05 PM, June 19th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you

M 25 years
BW Me - 50's
WH Him - 60's
OW 25 years younger
D-Days too numerous to mention last D-day being 12-2-11 *OW went on fishing trip 5-21-13*

"A relationship is only made for two, but some bitches don't know how to count"

Posts: 355 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Colorado
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, June 19th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tushnurse, your insights are always helpful to me and an inspiration...

Today is my 21st wedding anniversary. Certainly a day of mixed feelings. I am so grateful to read some positives here today. Trying to successfully navigate the post-A fallout and struggle through everything that has affected me and my family is the greatest challenge of my life. I am grateful for the veterans of this site who stick around to offer support and wisdom to those of us working our way through this mess. Thank you.

Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 741 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, June 19th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tush nurse, thank you so much for a wonderful post. You are a hard cookie with no sugar frosting. You say what needs to be said always. And you say it clear and matter of fact, not mean. I thank you for that.

I don't know where you were a couple of years ago when I started posting, but I must say I respect your posts and take them to heart.

Thank you for the time you spend on this site.

Me: BS-55
Him: WS-55
Married: 35 years
DD 36, DD 26, DS 22, DD 19
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

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