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User Topic: Really need to say what's on my mind
Needadrink
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Default  Posted: 4:53 AM, September 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry but 4 Months out from DDay and finally getting my head around his 18 yr on and off A I find out today that he's had numerous f.....ing masturbation massages with little Indonesian sluts and just this year he stopped off to f..k a prostitute in a brothel on his way to his interview for his new overseas job. Which he got and where is he now. He was just home for 9 days and swore he had told me everything yes absolutely everything. The slimeball. It's only cos I told him he would need to do a polygraph that this new information came out. I am so f...ing mad with myself because I gave him the full works HB I guess. I feel so stupid!!!!!!!!!


BS 57
WH 58
M 28 yrs together 32
D Day 10th April 2013
20 Yrs of Infidelity with long term affair 18 yrs but only seen a couple of times a year. 3 Prostitutes, sexual Massages.Ongoing Porn. lapdances.

Posts: 67 | Registered: Aug 2013
Opheliapain
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Default  Posted: 5:05 AM, September 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hugs)))

I'm sorry you received trickle truth (TT) and it sucks. It sucks because it takes you back to the beginning and any work is erased.

But while you may feel stupid you are not. You are loving and loyal and willing to believe what you were told. THIS failure is on him and not you. You have done your part and he failed his.

on a side note - your username is beyond brilliant!


Me - BW 38
Him - WH 33
Don't fuck with me fellas! This ain't my first time at the rodeo!
DD - 3/28/11

Posts: 173 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Indiana
LonelyHusband
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Default  Posted: 5:20 AM, September 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You suspected he was still lying and pushed into a position where he revealed information he clearly did not want to.

Sounds pretty smart to me. Keep the pressure up, it's the only way you'll get to the truth. If he admits that now, just wait until he's standing in the car park outside the polygraph.

In the Uk there's a fairly senior polygraphist who I have spoken to that reckons the polygraph really just adds a little confidence to the proceedings, and the car park is where the real truth is often exposed. Pathetic really, isn't it.

You on the other hand, are not pathetic. You are kicking ass for your marriage. Keep up the good work.


BS ( me) 41
fWS (OktoberMest) 35
D day #1 29/10/2011, D day #2 15/112011, D day #3 15/03/2012
Reconciling.
“It’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all”, is inadequate consolation when you vacuum up a child's hamster'

Posts: 1279 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: UK
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