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User Topic: OW tried talking to my WH today
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, September 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are right Lucky!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9403 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
jo2love
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Red  Posted: 10:30 PM, September 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Safeguard-

If you are unable to give support, please stay off the thread.


Posts: 33729 | Registered: Mar 2011
Bobbi_sue
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Default  Posted: 7:21 AM, September 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/J
The problem with the R forum is you can't call the whore a whore

I try to be careful to never do that in the R forum...but yes it has been 7 years for me and I suspect wherever I am allowed, I will call that whore a whore. She doesn't even have a name as far as I'm concerned. Her given name starts with T so if I have to distinguish her from other whores, I will call her T-whore.


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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, September 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/J

Her given name starts with T so if I have to distinguish her from other whores, I will call her T-whore.

I'm imagining REALLY short arms with claws on the end...


Posts: 1551 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
suposd2btheonly1
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, September 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T-whore!


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, September 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j

I want to join in the fun!

W___ with an "i" whore!

end t/j

Did OW also get suspended? Can your H tell HR that OW is stalking him, or something or other?


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
suposd2btheonly1
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Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, September 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't think she got suspended, lovely how the man always gets the shitty end of the stick huh? Especially since she was the one who started the no boundary flirting and asked him for his number....this she admitted to her BBF so I know that much is true.

But his EAP program is going to start paying for our MC so thats a plus


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 5:33 AM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im not sure I would wait to report her to HR. What is the reasoning for waiting (just asking because there might be something I dont know)?

It sounds like she will fish. Even just to be an annoying, immature beyotch.

If you dont go to HR now, definitely go the next time. Dont text or respond to her. Go crickets. Go to HR and if you can, have a lawyer write a cease and desist letter.

It is horribly unfair only one of the two paid for the crime. She must have been the first in the office, and thus cut the deal. Who knows. Life isnt fair.

((Hugs))


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not

Posts: 8210 | Registered: Sep 2007
aesir
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Default  Posted: 6:46 AM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..."i" whore!

Is that the kind that does lots of sexting on Apple products?


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
Want To Wake Up
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..."i" whore!


Is that the kind that does lots of sexting on Apple products?

[This message edited by Want To Wake Up at 9:09 AM, September 29th (Sunday)]


Me 50+
WH 50+ (SlowUptake)
DDay '09
Latest TT... Nov '13 (not a typo!)


One man’s “fruitless conflict” is another man’s “meaningful discussion”


Posts: 467 | Registered: Mar 2011
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j
..."i" whore!

Is that the kind that does lots of sexting on Apple products?

Your idea is much more funny than what I meant!

It means that she spells her name with an "i" instead of with a "y" I guess her parents thought that would be cute, but to me it just looks like they don't know how to spell.
end t/j

Has your H told OW if she talks to him again he is going to report her for sexual harassment?


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
suposd2btheonly1
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I asked him if there was any way that he could request he not train her. Up until this point, after the last layoff, it was just him and his supervisor. His supervisor is badly disfigured due to a car fire when he was a child. So his supervisor is training her on some things but when it comes to the things that require more arm mobility my H has to help her bc his supervisor lacks that physical aspect of the job.

Still why put her in that dept after all this? Idk but it pisses me off.

H said that there is very little talking and she hasnt tried fishing since his first day back. When they do have to interact its business only. I really do believe that hes not talking to her other than work stuff. But I am still really irritated that shes working in his area now. I hope he can get a transfer soon


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
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