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User Topic: No longer care
kg201
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, September 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since my last argument with my WW this past Tuesday I have really not cared about any of the A or M stuff. I have been in touch with her about the kids, but that is all. And I don't care. The argument on Tuesday ended with me walking back into my house saying, "Just leave me the hell alone." And since, I just don't care anymore. I think I have moved beyond denial, anger, and acceptance. Is there another stage? Acceptance seems to imply some level of care, but I...just...don't. Did anyone else get freaked out when they finally had enough of the drama, and a "calmness" descended on you?

[This message edited by kg201 at 8:59 PM, September 28th (Saturday)]


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 648 | Registered: Aug 2013
debbysbaby
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, September 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And since, I just don't care anymore. I think I have moved beyond denial, anger, and acceptance. Is there another stage?

Yes, indifference. You will get there. Just keep swimming!


-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

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