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User Topic: t/j making judgments; helpful or harmful?
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LostAngry,

You said;

Does it mean they have no redeeming qualities, absolutely not!

Redemption.... Now that's very different than making a judgement.

I'd simply ask, how can there be a need for redemption if there are no judgments of right and wrong?
I'm not sure I'd want to live in a world with no standards and no judgments.


A question regarding character;

When making bread, we add just a "pinch" of yeast and the bread rises, right?

I much the same way, with just a pinch of ____________ in our lives, will it effect our character? And, for how long???

Can we un-yeast a loaf of bread?

I wish I could un-adultery my marriage, but I can't.

As a FWS I am so thankful for redemption! But I'm also thankful for the judgments, levied from others, that led me to seek the forgiveness necessary to restore right relationships with others again.


WH (me)
BS (her)

D-Days April - Oct. 2007 Recovery started Nov. 2007

"Found Myself", I was right there in my shoes all along!
Search for self called off!

Why Repentance Is Necessary? Because Undeserved Mercy Empowers Entitlement/Sin


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