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Marathonwaseasy
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, September 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fwh's skanky AP's ex was bisexual. She says she tested for HIV and was ok. But I don't believe her. I'm waiting for results. I thought I'd have heard by now and I'm convinced there must be a reason I haven't. I'm so so scared. What will happen to my babies? I was breastfeeding one of them while he was fucking her and although sex between us was rare I could be positive and so could my baby. How do I get through the days? I have an appointment for my results on Wednesday. FWH is coming with me. The doc I saw said I'd hear my results before my appointment. Why haven't I? Going to try chasing it up today. I work in healthcare so if I'm positive then I shouldn't be working. But I'm trying to function and be normal.


Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."


Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
hitbyatruck
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Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not sure how all places work but I had to be present to get my HIV results. Maybe you haven't heard because they aren't permitted to tell you anything over the phone. For peace of mind call them in the morning. Hopefully your H was tested too.


Married 1998, 2 kids
D-day3/27/09,he left 5/23/09
WH wants to rebuild 3/21/10
He moved back in 9/25/10,
Dec, 2011-finally putting it all together, H had multiple affairs.
Possible porn addict for 15 yrs.
01/2014- in house separation

Posts: 3277 | Registered: Apr 2009
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Marathon...the waiting is just torture, gosh I'm so sorry your having to worry about this, and the baby...just not right. I hope you get good news ...sending positive thoughts for negative results.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..divorced slut who prefers committed men, specializing in befriending and bopping the fathers of her kids team mates
Status..%&$#@?$

Posts: 3974 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Marathonwaseasy
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Default  Posted: 3:07 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoned the clinic - nurse phoned back - initial results are negative

Have to wait for a full 3 months after our last during the A sex - end of August - last A sex 9/9 DDay 13/9 then I can be completely sure I and my baby are safe

FWH is distraught at the grim reality of what he did - good
As long as keeps with remorse and reconciliation and doesn't go down into self loathing and despair. It was self loathing had him in bed with the slut and I will no longer accept being married to a man child


Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."


Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
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