Topic: Woke up to this text this morning
Member # 34755
| Posted: 8:30 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
I love you so much. Each day I love you more and more. From the way you look at me with your beautiful blue eyes to the way you touch me. I regret what I did to you and how much I hurt you, lied and let you down. I want you in my life forever. You complete me. I love our family. I canít wait to see you this afternoon. I miss you and love you.
Nice way to start off my Monday morning.
BS - Me
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12
Former 80s Icon wishful thinking
Posts: 1838 | Registered: Feb 2012
Member # 40144
| Posted: 8:31 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 20 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, MC/IC/FC,
He officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...
Posts: 484 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
Member # 33549
| Posted: 8:45 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
That is wonderful !!! Very happy for you.
M 30 yrs
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
Posts: 555 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 36711
| Posted: 9:11 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
Oh how I would love a note like that.
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
Posts: 1194 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Member # 40055
| Posted: 9:14 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
That made MY day!!!
M: 22.5 yrs
TT: Nov 12-Jan 13
DD: 20; DD: 18; DS: 16; DS: 14
Posts: 262 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
Member # 36519
| Posted: 9:16 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
BS (me): 49
Married: 25 yrs
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R
Posts: 1020 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 40488
| Posted: 9:19 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore
Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 30024
| Posted: 9:22 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson
Posts: 8694 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Member # 39707
| Posted: 9:23 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
How awesome is that?
Him: doesn't matter anymore...or does it...
Being very, very careful
D-day 14 June 2013
I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!
Posts: 119 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: trying to figure it out
Member # 15902
| Posted: 9:26 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 29 years, Happily Reconciled
Posts: 5593 | Registered: Aug 2007
Member # 40674
| Posted: 9:47 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
Thanks for sharing that
Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...
"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."
Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
Member # 40762
| Posted: 10:12 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
Geez....wish I'd get something like that. My husband is so clueless.
I wanted to edit this to say I have gotten some really nice texts from him in the past. I am just down right now. And I think this is so great for you and so sweet!
[This message edited by topperoff22 at 10:43 PM, September 30th (Monday)]
BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month
Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
Member # 40574
| Posted: 10:18 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
I get those kinds of texts from my wife from time to time. It is nice...makes me smile. But... I don't really feel anything for her, so it's hard for me to really appreciate them they way I should. It almost makes it awkward, in a way.
That being said - I hope everyone gets a text like that from someone at some point. They do lift you up.
Me: BH, 35
Her: WW, 36
Two girls 7 & 10
Married 12 years
Dday: July, 2009
She wants answers... I'm still trying to figure out what the questions are.
Posts: 254 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Maine, USA
|Getting to Happy|
Member # 35200
| Posted: 11:51 AM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Posts: 1089 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
Member # 34671
| Posted: 12:24 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
How wonderful for you...I'm smiling for you :))))
Me - BS 54
H - WS 56/very remorseful and supportive
Kids 28, 25, 21
discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic
Posts: 264 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
Member # 37154
| Posted: 1:24 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
Posts: 1572 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
Member # 23478
| Posted: 1:30 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
What a wonderful text to wake up to. You are blessed.
Me: BS (61)
Him: WH (64
Married: 41 years
Kids: 3, Grandkids - 6
EA/PA - 6 years -
DDay - 12/16/07
DDay - 10/20/11
DDay - 8/15/12
Posts: 262 | Registered: Apr 2009
Member # 38958
| Posted: 1:43 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
Great way to start the week!
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."
Posts: 286 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
Member # 38879
| Posted: 2:09 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
So happy for you - great start to the week.
BS (me) - 53
WH (him)- 54
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm
Married almost 30 years and here I am. heartbroken.
Trying to make it thru each day. And I'm still trying.
Working toward R - At least I am. Not sure what he is doing.
Posts: 163 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Nor Cal
Member # 30826
| Posted: 2:21 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013|
FWH has been sending me texts like that,several times a week,for the last few years.
I used to feel the same way you did,ontheslope. I felt nothing. Or I'd feel annoyed. but I didn't feel loved..nor did I feel love for him.
But,with time and a remorseful WS, those feelings can,and often do, come back.
I have learned to accept his words of love and affection..and even believe them.
Wonderful thing to wake up to,SamanthaBaker. Thank you for sharing. We need more postive stories here in the R forum.
M: June 2001
Status: R? I don't know..ask me tomorrow..it changes rapidly.
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
Posts: 6293 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
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