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User Topic: Has om or ow tried to make amends? I got an email from mow......
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing more to add that hasn't been said. Just sending hugs

((((Shelly))))


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 607 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looks like somebody might need some drama llama glue to hold their unicorn together. Sorry, we are fresh out of give-a-fuck over here and we won't be re-stocking.

LOVE THIS!

Is it sad that BECAUSE my XWH is a fireman/paramedic.....that I feel sick to my stomach or roll my eyes whenever I hear a firetruck or ambulance siren??? And, that I PURPOSELY had my daughter at a different local hospital from where MOW works because MOW is a nurse at our main hospital? Sad huh?

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 7:43 PM, September 30th (Monday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, she is insane.

Just wow.


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, she is insane

You really have NO idea HOW insane she really is!!!! To give you a small clue.... my 95 year old grandmother died almost exactly 2 months after D day and while me and my XWH were in false R. MOW emailed me saying that she "had come across my grandmother's obituary BY CHANCE in the newspaper" (we all know XWH told her about it) and that "if I could set aside our differences, she could be a friend to me in my time of need and a shoulder to cry on"....

Yeah... YUP... C-R-A-Z-Y T-R-A-I-N......just left the station folks!!!!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
SBB
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, September 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AYFKM? OWUmpteen is a child quivering in her skiddy undies so would never dare contact me.

I'd be reporting her and her coke head friends until they were arrested faster than you can say "Enjoy the genital herpes, c&@t".

A GF of mine has been cyber stalking her (unbeknownst to me) and before I could tell her to STFU she emailed me a pic she posted with coke and a rolled up $50 note clearly visible in the shot. Fuckwit.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A GF of mine has been cyber stalking her (unbeknownst to me) and before I could tell her to STFU she emailed me a pic she posted with coke and a rolled up $50 note clearly visible in the shot. Fuckwit.

OMG.... yeah..."unfortunately" my MOW tries to be an "upstanding member of society" posing as the perfect woman/runner/nurse/hero... blah blah blah! She has even contacted my loser unemployed drunken sperm donor and put a good word in him and got him into the fire academy to become a fireman - like my XWH(in the same jurisdiction that he got fired as a sheriff for selling contraband to immates! - little does she know about that!) She will find out soon enough though when they run his background check after the academy....IF he actually makes it through and doesn't quit or get kicked out....(which is much more likely)....

Dumbass. Let him make her look like an even bigger fool than she is!

She is only trying to be "his friend" to get on my nerves. But, honestly.... she is just playing with a snake...and we all know what happens when you do that! Have fun dummy!

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 7:29 AM, October 1st (Tuesday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd be tempted to respond:

"You need not worry about me wasting energy as I no longer care. Wishing both of you all the happiness that you deserve"


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1748 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd be tempted to respond:
"You need not worry about me wasting energy as I no longer care. Wishing both of you all the happiness that you deserve"

As much as I will admit that I fantasize of all of the things that I would LIKE to say to her....and him for that matter. I digress. It would only open up the flood gates to what she called "an email war" and she is one of those people who have to get the "last word in."

I remember when she somehow got my cell phone number (I've had to change my number like 3 times due to their stalking) and I had just been laid off from my job about 2 months prior. She sent me a message calling me "pathetic and jobless." I WAS LAID OFF BITCH NOT FIRED! UGH.... I was so mad. Then, I got hired at my current job like 4 months later. It took me forever in this economy but I have a better position now than I did before!

That was also the 1st year of her and XWH's stupid "breast cancer awareness 5k race" and she mailed me a flyer to THEIR race to my EX-BOYFRIEND's address where I was staying 90% of the time at that time (this is my daughter's sperm donor). I wasn't living there...but I was practically was. But, this was NOT my address so they purposely mailed it to his house "just because" they wanted me to know that they knew where I was. It was creepy and again.... right up there on the stalker scale! Even though I had even already stated on their event page that I was NOT coming. She just wanted to rub in my face something "good" that she and XWH were doing together as a couple!

Whatever!

She is a bad person. And, I want nothing to do with her. So, I refuse to converse with her. I have no room for her in my universe.

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 8:21 AM, October 1st (Tuesday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
strongerdaybyday
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Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I used to want an apology so badly from the OW...and then I realized why?? She knew about me and didn't care, would her apology be real? I doubt it. This MOW is not worth it..she doesn't get to choose when it's time to "play nice" she was the one that was playing dirty with a woman's husband. YOU decide when to make nice, and if your decision is to never deal with this looney chick again, then do it. I would not respond.


Me-BW Him - WH
Married 6 years, together 13+ years
D-Day Summer 2013
children-3
If it is what it is then what is it?

**If I edit I'm correcting a typo!**


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

she doesn't get to choose when it's time to "play nice"

It is out of character for her to want to "play nice!" I think the only reason she even sent that email is because she can't "get one over on me" now. She can't beat me as a runner.....because IF she could.....she would revel in it....and would be even worse towards me than she is....she would enjoy rubbing it in my face! (kinda like I enjoy beating her!) But, she would be WAY worse and gloat! She knows that I'm a good person....and took the high road. She knows I'm a single mom and have a masters degree and work full-time to support my daughter. She knows that most people know what she did. So, basically....she probably KNOWS she must look like an ASS if she is mean to me (from the point of view of others). And, since she and XWH are all about appearances.....and they CARE what others think of them and their reputation and they work SO DAMN HARD to look like saints.... she wants others to "think" she is trying to be the bigger person by contacting me first and extending an olive branch.

Please.... she can take her snake-infested olive branch and set it ablaze for all I care.... I don't want it. I don't want her. And, I don't want him in my life.... BACK. THE. FUCK. OFF.


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
strongerdaybyday
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

she wants others to "think" she is trying to be the bigger person by contacting me first and extending an olive branch.

Please.... she can take her snake-infested olive branch and set it ablaze for all I care.... I don't want it. I don't want her. And, I don't want him in my life.... BACK. THE. FUCK. OFF.

^^THIS...ALL OF THIS^^
Forget her and her email. I will never understand the mind of an OW...but then again, I don't want too!


Me-BW Him - WH
Married 6 years, together 13+ years
D-Day Summer 2013
children-3
If it is what it is then what is it?

**If I edit I'm correcting a typo!**


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 8:56 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will never understand the mind of an OW...but then again, I don't want too!

I think like what someone else said.... reality is finally setting in. The fantasy is fading.... the fog is lifting... and what they did is becoming more and more clear. They hurt TWO very good people. Her husband and me. And, they have to live with that. And, they have to live with each other. Enjoy your reflections Motherfu*kers....


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't read all the responses but I'm still wondering where it is in that e-mail that she tried to make amends?


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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Spirit13
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just wanted to add.... DAMN Shelly! You are frickin fast! I would kill to run that fast.

Be proud of yourself girl! You rock!


Men were deceivers ever; one foot in sea and one on shore, to one thing constant never.

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't read all the responses but I'm still wondering where it is in that e-mail that she tried to make amends?

I think she more wants to "co-exist in blissful ignorance" more than make amends.... kinda like a black widow spider and a fly chilling out together.... it isn't going to happen.


I just wanted to add.... DAMN Shelly! You are frickin fast! I would kill to run that fast.
Be proud of yourself girl! You rock!

Awww....thank you! I try my best!

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 11:52 AM, October 1st (Tuesday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, puh-leeze:

I HATE how happy they look together.... especially the pictures of them with my ex-family in laws.... it hurts. In one picture she calls my ex-MIL "momma" and I wanted to puke.

That crap goes on with my XWH and his Owife. Everything family-related is SUCH a big deal now when my XWH couldn't have given a crap about any of it when we were married. They love to put on the big show for everyone, and that's exactly what is going on here. She calls your ex-MIL Momma? Gosh, we're not trying too hard now, are we? What a ridiculous act, and I'm sure they're hoping you'll look up the pics or someone will tell you about them.

Glad you're staying NC. That whore doesn't deserve any more attention, especially not from you.

[This message edited by tryingagain74 at 5:52 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday)]


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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