I agree that you can't just have access to current things - it doesn't stop them from getting a new phone or communicating in a way/place you don't have access to. The only thing that can stop them is if they want to stop.
I hope on top of this you don't have to put up with the stupid bigoted stereotypes that people throw around to boot (seen that happen with my mom - ick). Hugs.
Again, sorry you're here. Sucks to be us at these times but there are better days ahead, single or not!
[This message edited by thisissogross at 9:55 PM, September 30th (Monday)]
i edit frequently because i have to