OK - so I have given up that my husband will ever get the help that he needs.
I have been toying with the idea of getting an IC for me.
But here's the deal. I live in a sort of small town. I go to "the" church in that town. I have just googled counselors in my town, and I know 1 or 2 of them, and the others' names are familiar to me.
I know many believe that it is cathartic to talk to people about the infidelity situation, but I just can't. I won't.
And I especially can't if I think I might pass them in the hallway at church on Sunday!
(I don't believe in the Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy, OR confidentiality.)
So, any suggestions for finding someone? My husband and I went across the country one time. And another time we did phone counseling. Neither were helpful."Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy