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User Topic: WS thinks he is slick
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He left home in one shirt and came home in another and he says he was at his friends house well this friend has a nasty smell to his house and it travels with WS so I know he wasn't there

Posts: 171 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Illinois
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good job catching that error!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9464 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know right and there's gain on his shirt he's wearing and we us sun

Posts: 171 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Illinois
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Meant use

How many betrayed spouses have told there WS that they are on this site? I haven't yet should I?


Posts: 171 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Illinois
heartache101
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Soover
What are you going to do?


There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3186 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How many betrayed spouses have told there WS that they are on this site? I haven't yet should I?

I have but only recently, not when I was in detective mode

I had to see remorse first.


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did NOT tell him. No way. I needed a safe place, and this was it.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9464 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Heartache at this point I don't know what I'm going to do but I'm doing the 180 like I've been reading and even doing it to my monster in law my WS doesn't like silent treatment or not saying I love you :-) but I'm doing it

Posts: 171 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Illinois
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Heartache at this point I don't know what I'm going to do but I'm doing the 180 like I've been reading and even doing it to my monster in law my WS doesn't like silent treatment or not saying I love you :-) but I'm not saying it back

Posts: 171 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Illinois
reclaimingmyself
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How many betrayed spouses have told there WS that they are on this site? I haven't yet should I?
When I thought we were reconcilling I told the now ex about this site. It turned out to be false R and he used a lot of information he found here to take it underground and keep me thinking we were making progress.

IMHO, unless you are working on reconcilliation with a remorseful spouse, I would keep SI to yourself. You need a safe place.


Posts: 730 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Immersed in my happily ever after : )
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought id ask since He came home last night and saw me typing on here and he said what are you doing I paused for a minute and said typing well thats what i was doing but he gave me this look the man is not computer savy I wasn't going to lie but I don't want him thinking other wise either we aren't in R because he isn't telling me the truth until he does Then it is what it is I don't understand if he wants to be with me why is he with her all day Wednesday and me and the kids all the other days and 7 nights a week? It's gotten to the point where I'm done crying and ready to set him free. But he says he's not going anywhere

Posts: 171 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Illinois
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I told H about this site right away, I felt such relief being on it, and being supported.

He wasn't interested really, he was still in the rugsweeping ok I did this lets move on stage.

He was willing to read a few things I printed out, and listened to me tell him about some things I read.

I don't think he came here after he really got it, but I could be wrong, the point is this site is anonymous for a reason. It's important for you to feel safe to share some of the stuff we share, and if you are worried about your partner seeing it, then no you shouldn't share.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8089 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No I'm not insecure about telling him about the site I am however scared what he will say about the no contact letter that I wrote my ex my WS is very jealous that part I do not know why because I'm a 36 year old woman I'm disabled he puts my socks and shoes on for me because i can not ( and no thats not why im with him) and in the winter I'm confide to the house because I'm scared of falling. He has the neighbors watch my house even when I'm home I don't even have my closest friend come over we talk more on text and messenger more her husband gets upset because if I'm talking to her on the phone and WS comes home I get off the phone with her because yes I'm going to say it my WS is loud he says he knew what he was getting into when he asked me to marry him so I don't know

Posts: 171 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Illinois
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