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User Topic: It is final!
mof2
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Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, went to court this morning and now my divorce is final. While waiting my turn to see the judge, I just sat there and thought "in true form, here I am taking care of everything and he is off living his life." I then started thinking about everything he had done to me through our marriage and couldn't help think "F'ing a**hole." Left there feeling somewhat happy and got home and really didn't know what to think...just kind of numb to the whole thing. I know it is for the best, but really wish I would have felt that extreme happiness that others had talked about. Time for the next chapter.


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
jackfish
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hug.

Posts: 88 | Registered: Aug 2013
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I felt the same as you. My divorce was just finalized a couple of weeks ago. I didn't feel sad, mad or happy. I was just numb. I do know it's what is best for me though. I guess numb is better than devastated, right ?


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 923 | Registered: Mar 2013
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((mof2)))

I hope your new beginning is filled with happiness.


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