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User Topic: meeting tomorrow with former boss
badchoice
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would agree with the rest and say cancel the meeting, but it'd seems like you are all seton going through with it.

Good luck with it tomorrow.


Me: fWH/BH 46

Separated transitioning to D


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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 1:04 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Alyssa,
I agree with the advice you have been given. I don't think there is anything helpful or healthy to be gained by this meeting. I do hope it goes well for you and you are finally able to work on mental NC with your AP.


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D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

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Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 7:02 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well after thinking about everyone's comments I am very apprehensive and nervous about the meeting today and no longer want to do it. But since its less than two hours away now, I can't cancel it.

I will go in, keeping in mind what everyone here has told me, and see what happens.

I will post later about how it goes!


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

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Stillstings
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad you're listening to the very wise voices on here. It's obviously too late to stop what's going to happen but hopefully it won't be too wretched.

Oh and this:

but two of my coworkers knew about my A with xap (one of whom congratulated me on it, the other said it was as exciting as a lifetime movie.)
Both of these co workers saw multiple messages/texts from xap including the ones where he said he would always love me.

That is not family. Gossip is never healthy or mature. The sooner you are away from these people the better.


Love yourself. You're worth it. Face your self. You need to do it.

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