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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had a job interview last Friday, and they called me yesterday at 4:45 to see if I could come back in for a 2nd interview, this morning.

Then right after I left work yesterday, I got rear-ended. On the service road of the freeway, where I was stopped in rush hour traffic. Oh, behind a flat-bed 18 wheeler loaded with some sort of construction beams.

I drive a Hyundai Elantra.

Yeah, for a little bit there I thought I was gonna be toast. Thankfully my front end didn't come that close to the truck.

Anyway, borrowed my son's car and made it to the interview this morning. They needed to run a credit check before they could consider making me an offer.

Aw shit, I had no idea what my credit report looks like in these post-divorce days, other than I know I have way more credit card debt than I used to.

Came home, started making calls to the insurance people. Waited for a call back so I can get a rental. Never got one. More calls to insurance people.

OMG! I get a call. I GOT THE JOB!!!!

Then, I finally get a call back from the insurance people with the info I need to get a rental. Only, the closest Enterprise doesn't have any cars.

So now, instead of calling either another Enterprise or the insurance person back, I'm posting on SI. Because the last 24 hours have been crazy for me, and who better to share that with than 40,000+ of my nearest and dearest friends.

oh, and I'm just fine, btw. Just a little bit of stiffness when I sit for too long, and that goes away when I get up and move.

okay, off to track down a rental car, so I can go to work tomorrow and give them my notice.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12151 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very glad you are okay and that you got the job


Choices, Chances, Changes.....You must make a Choice to take a Chance or your life will never Change.

Posts: 13769 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo Hoo!

You got the job!

Happy Dancin'!!!

Sorry about the car, but YAY!! about the job!!!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21055 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on landing the job!!

Sorry about the accident, and I hope you're not hurting too badly.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7818 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

okay, off to track down a rental car, so I can go to work tomorrow and give them my notice


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5163 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay you got the Job!!

Boo You got rear-ended!!!

Yay you get to give your notice!!!

I hope your new job is better and less stressful.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24538 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the job!! Phooey to everything else.

I hope everything calms down for you soon.


If life is just a series of ridiculous attempts to be alive, you're a hero. - J. Winger

Posts: 17529 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the new job!!

Most importantly, YOU are OK. Cars can be replaced.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy for you!!! (but please tell me it's not my former employer... )

Better days are ahead


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Posts: 20221 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats. It's good to know that ability trumps credit card debt.

Sorry about the accident. Make sure you take care of yourself.

[This message edited by sisoon at 5:19 PM, October 3rd (Thursday)]


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DDay - 12/2010
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Posts: 10162 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congrats!


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 5935 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the new job!!!

I'm glad you are ok and not seriously hurt from the accident.


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Threnody
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the job, and I'm glad you aren't hurt!!

(I have never before in my life written anything quite like that all in the same sentence.)


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 14040 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX
punky
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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, that has been a crazy few days!!! Yay about the job, though!


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Posts: 11295 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: A whole 'nother country
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(but please tell me it's not my former employer...)

It is not your former employer. I hadn't reached that stage of desperation, yet.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12151 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
unbreak_my_heart
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Content  Posted: 6:31 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

great for the new job... not great about the accident


HAPPILY RECONCILED!

I ♥ my Husband!!!


Posts: 2285 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Our happy place
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the new job!!!!

What a day - glad you weren't hurt!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5189 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, talk about a yin/yang day...

Glad you're OK.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17411 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the job! !! Sorry about the car.

Dont be surprised tomorrow morning if you are suddenly very sore. Between the adrenaline and time you may be sore. Be sure to drink a giant glass of water before bed. Mortrin will be your friend, too.

(((And congrats)))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8592 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!! new job!

everything else is too overwhelming to mention. I hope you have a day this weekend to decompress and reset.

I second the suggestion to take motrin to head off any stiffness.

Yay, again for new job!!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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