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User Topic: So mad right now....
emotionalgirl
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, October 5th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought we were doing ok, I thought he was getting it, I thought he was doing everything right......
We have a fundraiser and a birthday party tonight, so here I sit all dressed up and ready to go and guess what! That's right the asshole is an hour late getting home, phone is off and I am steaming mad!!


1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

Posts: 370 | Registered: Aug 2013
emotionalgirl
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, October 5th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok literally two seconds after I posted this he calls....his phone died and he got stuck at work then had to drive 20 min to next town over to get gas because he's an idiot who forgot to fill his tank yesterday!
He knows I am mad and is apologetic but GOD I HATE THIS! The doubts and the crazy making!


1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

Posts: 370 | Registered: Aug 2013
TheClimb
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, October 5th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just go by yourself. When he calls let it go to voice mail See how much he likes being ignored!

Try to enjoy your evening.


"That which can be destroyed by the truth should be" P.C. Hodgell

Posts: 458 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: Southern Maryland
emotionalgirl
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Default  Posted: 2:31 AM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I left and went alone, he got home to an empty house. I didn't answer my phone he shows up at fundraiser all upset because I didn't wait for him. I said to him if you had turned on your phone I would have been able to let you know. Best part is....he walked in just as I was getting hit on by some cute young guy! definitely gave this gal an ego boost and opened WH eyes very wide. He was on his best behaviour all night long!
I feel a bit bad because he actually ran out of gas but what idiot doesn't fill his tank? Then in the next thought I feel like he is just an idiot who should know better!

[This message edited by emotionalgirl at 2:34 AM, October 6th (Sunday)]


1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

Posts: 370 | Registered: Aug 2013
JanetS
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would have checked his phone to confirm it was really out of power...and is there no gas closer than 20 minutes away?

Posts: 2565 | Registered: Nov 2003 | From: Niagara-on-the-Lake, Canada
Dreamland
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine does stupid things but that's how he fooled me so I don't believe any lame answer anymore.
I still track his phone to verify. And often wonder why is not working I can or do the find my iPhone . He says it's the gps but hates when he gets the ping. I don't care if he gets angry. He cheated and it's part of the deal.
I would check it..


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
emotionalgirl
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone....as usual when I get angry and post my details can be sketchy....
He works 45 min from the city in the middle of a bare field and is building a big plant. The nearest town is 20 min away. His phone often searches for signal through the day and then dies and he sometimes does not realize it. There is literally nothing but 2 towns between him and the city. The first towns gas station was already closed and he tried to drive to the next town but ran out of gas before he got there. Had to get one of the guys he works with to get him a geri can full, and I didn't check number but he called from work buddies phone to let me know.I did confirm this. His phone was dead when he showed up at the fundraiser.

I am sure it is all the truth...but am still mad today tha he is such an idiot, and that he brought this shit into our lives making me not trust the smallest things anymore. He has been very understanding about my anger though so that is good!

[This message edited by emotionalgirl at 12:21 PM, October 6th (Sunday)]


1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

Posts: 370 | Registered: Aug 2013
StillStanding1
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was just happy to read that you went without him and he got a tiny dose of his own medicine.

Feeling a little vengeful today and living vicariously...


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 656 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
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