Phmh, that is very helpful. I do end up explaining myself and why the hell should I?
I read your profile and there are many similarities in my story, not least the huge financial impact he has had on me. He is currently broke, as usual, but this time I am not bailing him out. I have kept this secret for years and only yesterday did I sit down with a lawyer friend and tell the whole truth.
I also spoke to my attorney and I am in the best shape I can be in that respect.
He is selectively mentally retarded, by the way. He always claims that he can't remember phone numbers, for example.I have lost count of the number of times he has called me asking me to look up, yet again, a number I've already given him umpteen times before.
But he remembered OW's - he never even put that in his phone contacts.