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User Topic: "My Declaration of Self-Esteem"
macakipa
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Member # 33735
Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I AM ME

In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me
Everything that comes out of me is authentically me
Because I alone chose it - I own everything about me
My body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions,
Whether they be to others or to myself - I own my fanatasies,
My dreams, my hopes, my fears - I own all my triumphs and
Successes, all my failures and mistakes
Because I own all of Me, I can become intimately acquainted with me -
By so doing I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts - I know
There are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other
Aspects that I do not know - but as long as I am
Friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously
And hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles
And for ways to find out more about me - However I
Look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever
I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically
Me - If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought
And felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is
Unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that
Which I discarded - I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do
I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be
Productive to make sense and order out of the world of
People and things outside of me - I own me, and
Therefore I can engineer me - I am me and
I AM OKAY

--Virginia Satir, (C) 1975


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love. Thank you for posting this, macakipa.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25765 | Registered: Aug 2011
Ann124
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Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely Perfect!

Posts: 387 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 3:05 AM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

75 was a great year!

Love this.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Bebba1171
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Member # 33857
Default  Posted: 6:31 AM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excellent...


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
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