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User Topic: I'm on a high from Retrouvaille!
ILINIA
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holy cow! We just had the best weekend at Retrouvaille. I initially didn't have high expectations and thought how can a Catholic retreat help us? I am glad I was wrong. We had such good dialogue and discussions.

I know it is only a start and we will have to continue to work and invest in our M, but gosh, I FEEL GOOD! It feels like it has been forever since I have felt optimistic and alive!

I'm going to savor this feeling it as long as I can!


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

Posts: 428 | Registered: Jul 2013
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't tell you how happy I am for you. YAY!

I teared up for you and I got a rush of memories from our weekend. I knew that I knew I did the right thing by giving MisterSister a chance to step up and prove that he was willing to do what it takes to reconcile after that weekend.

We reconnected in a way that had been missing so long for us and it was the most unbelievable feeling ever. Yep, high from Retrouvaille!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome

I remember that feeling too. It's an exhausting weekend but in a good way.


Growing forward

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad for you. Please go to every post-session they are worth their weight in gold.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4585 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2527 | Registered: Aug 2012
SurelyNOT
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is so reassuring, it is so nice to read of a little measure of happiness.
Good luck in your journey

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heforgotme
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are going in two weeks and now I really can't wait!


D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

Posts: 1065 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: FL
ILINIA
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, October 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks all! I actually felt the shift in my mind happen, it was great! It helped that I could related really well with 2 of the 3 presenting couples.

heforgotme - You will have to let me know how your weekend goes.


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

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