So I went and visited my brother yesterday. This is the first time I talked to him about what H did.
My brother told me that he thinks that when she (OW) realized she was getting nothing from the family..(cash etc) she went after H to F**k me and family over.
He said to me that he thinks she set a trap for H and he fell for it. My brother thinks she wanted to get back at me. He thinks that when she realized that we weren't going to give her anything she wanted to screw me over.
My family is comfortable financially, but when she showed up, my mother had a bad feeling about her. She told us all not to go overboard with her...we didn't.
I'm trying to make sense of it all in my mind. H says they talked about running away together, but at the same time she goes to my mother and tell my mother that he won't leave her alone..She was literally crying to my mom. But I see her texts at the same time to him and she's telling him she loves him...Can't figure out this girl's game...