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User Topic: Do you kill yourself with "what ifs"?
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, October 8th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not saying that it's necessarily negative. What ifs can make u more aware of future mistakes. It helps u to analyze the past to prepare for a better future. U just have to make sure not to let it drag u into a depression. This forum is about sharing your difficulties and your positives. I think the people who posted recognize there struggles and will work on it in their own time.

Bs: me 32 WH: 36
Dday: July 2012
LTA: 4years (ea, pa)
Dd-4. Ds-2
My life is shattered unsure about R

Posts: 140 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: canada
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Forty years worth.

Worst one is...what if I had just thrown him out ten years ago. What I would give for a do-over on that one.

"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live."

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Default  Posted: 2:13 AM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exactly sad34. I don't dwell on it so much now but.I used to. You are correct, you learn from the past. Those what ifs, turn into, should this happen again, I would handle it "this " instead of "that" so I wouldn't have to say, what if again.
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

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