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User Topic: 2013 Christmas Card Exchange
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Any idea how many have signed up?

Trying to make sure I accumulate enough cards.

I can't wait!!!!!!!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5279 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
CardExchange
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

46 members have signed up...we're getting close to last years record

Posts: 79 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Pole
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really looking forward to this.

Christmas is looking to be very different for us this year. I'm banking on SI cards to bring holiday cheer.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6314 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooh, just saw this. I need it more this year than ever, so I am definitely in.


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15291 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
Softcentre
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Default  Posted: 2:09 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can UK people participate? I'm loving the idea of all the glitter and cards. This will be my first Christmas without WH. I think I'm going to need some lovebombing from somewhere


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 1061 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
fraeuken
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Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am in.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm in


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1778 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Fireball72
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. I'd better go buy more cards!

On the up side, I went to Michael's yesterday and hit a HUGE sale on ....glitter.

Muhahahahaha.....


XBS - 42 and fabulous :D
Remarried happily in 2013
A relationship is built for two. But apparently, some bitches don't know how to count!

Posts: 602 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: The Chesapeake Bay
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Softcentre...

Eveyone is welcomed to participate. For our international friends, once the list is posted of members participating, just calculate how much postage you'll need, include it with your package and I'll purchase the stamps and put them on your cards for you


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198321 | Registered: May 2002
Softcentre
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Softcentre...
Eveyone is welcomed to participate. For our international friends, once the list is posted of members participating, just calculate how much postage you'll need, include it with your package and I'll purchase the stamps and put them on your cards for you

Thank you

Will you post them in a packet? And is there a website where I can work out the postage, please?


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 1061 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's 46 cents for a standard size card going anywhere within the US (square-shaped cards or oversized cards cost 20 cents more).

$1.10 for all cards going from the US to international destinations (yes, even Canada and Mexico - which used to be at a cheaper rate )

xe.com can give currency exchange rates, but you should probably round that up a bit as that is the bank rate and not what "real life" people get.

I'm not sure how people have dealt with the different currencies in the past - DS can probably let you know. Cash? Check? Postal order?

usps.com is the US postal service website, but it can be confusing if you just want to know the letter rate - it is really set up for calculating packages. https://www.usps.com/send/address-letter-cards.htm

ETA: Maximum weight is 3.5 oz. SOME people probably need extra postage due to glitter weight (ahem).

[This message edited by Lyonesse at 12:50 PM, October 27th (Sunday)]


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Will you post them in a packet?

Each card gets a stamp and is mailed individually, not as a packet, which is wonderful, actually...sometimes you just receive one card, and then a second, and then on the third day you have 32 cards crammed in your mailbox with glitter spilling out through the cracks! The anticipation makes it all the more fun.


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
ExposedNiblet
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This sounds so amazing! I can't wait!

(...and it's not even Halloween yet!)


Divorced
Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)

Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.


Posts: 355 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please include me, this sounds fabulous!


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 766 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Softcentre
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aw, I love the idea of this, but with how many people are now doing it, I don't know that I can afford the postage back to the UK from so many people.


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 1061 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I am remembering correctly the senders are responsible for the postage not the recipient.


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2635 | Registered: Aug 2012
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Chicho is correct. The senders will need to put the correct postage on the cards. DS will mark on the list the ones that need international postage.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12166 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Softcentre,

It will be 46 cents per card for you (plus whatever it costs for you to bundle them in a packet and mail your cards to Texas). DS and the elves will be mailing the cards from the US to (mainly) other US destinations. In past years, there have only been a few overseas participants. There is no obligation to send to everyone if it is too expensive. Most people do if they can, though, because everyone can use the extra cheer and glitter.

For those of us sending cards TO you, it will be $1.10. I will definitely send you a card if you sign up! I have lived overseas before and there is nothing like knowing someone in another part of the world is thinking of you.


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How cool count me in.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 773 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
inconnu
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Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

if y'all haven't read the first post in the thread, make sure you do. You have to send a PM to get officially signed up.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12166 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
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