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User Topic: today is d day
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


today was hell for me I feel like she was winning all over again .. I triggered over every little thing .. he did text me later today that he wanted to celebrate our marriage .. not the negative.. wish It would of been better for me .. sigh .. like he said every day is out day ...


me 33
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 212 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

broken...

Each day will get a little easier...go slow and be gentle with yourself.

I'm sorry you're struggling.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 197026 | Registered: May 2002
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Deeply Scared .. I had a freaky dream the other night that she came to our house and told me she had his baby when they did nothing physical ... im pregnant with his bb not her .. ughs ..


me 33
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 212 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, October 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The wonderful thing about any given day... is that no matter how bad it is, no matter how dark the night... the sun will rise again tomorrow... full of promise and hope reborn.
Let's see what tomorrow brings.


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17093 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
RidingHealingRd
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Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry that you struggled through the day...completely understandable.

It honestly does get easier. My Dday is 19 days away, entering year 4. My life is no longer in turmoil. Yes, on 10/29 I will relive that dreaded Dday in my mind but I will relive it without the intense pain. Hopefully, I will relive it quickly and then get on with my day.

It will get better.


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2109 | Registered: Nov 2011
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you all


me 33
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 212 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
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