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User Topic: Great MC session, again
bionicgal
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really love our MC. We talked about our upcoming anniversary (next week), and how there is reason to celebrate it. We've been through/are in a terribly painful part of our marriage, but we are here. . .still kicking. Still imperfect. Still trying to improve and love each other better.

Some days I get lost in the pain of the infidelity, but MC reminds me that H is here, working hard, trying his best to make things right. I can start to see how this time will be a painful footnote in an otherwise profound, and dare I say it, healing relationship for both of us. I refuse to let it define me, and eventually, us.

So, very hopeful today. The pack of black dogs (jealousy, despair, fear & pain) are, for now, dozing in the sun. I know they'll be back, but for now, I am going to try to enjoy it.


me - BS (40s)
DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months, EA then PA
In MC & Reconciling
An affair is more like a mental break than a relationship.

I edit, therefore I am.


Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
neverdidithink
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bionicgal, what a great post and a great reminder to look at what we do have. I love the visual of the dogs dozing in the sun - perfect.


Me: BW 52
Him: WH 55
Married 8 years
4 20-something his and hers kids

Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the color 9


Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013
meplusfour
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Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love reading about positive experiences. Big smiles to you!


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 356 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for your inspiration bionicgal. I am so happy to hear the positive. Enjoy!


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 474 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
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