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User Topic: The divorce that never ends
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From my attorney:

Please find enclosed Judge L***'s on our Post Trial Motions. She did not take any actions to correct anything other than her obvious typographical and computational errors. It is my position that this is an unreasonable Judgment that was not supported by the evidence and represents an abuse of the Court's discretion. I would advise you that an appeal of this to the Court of Appeals ... would be appropriate.

On top of this, in our last email my attorney wants me to set up a face-to-face meeting with XWW to discuss the ordered division of the farm.

FML


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5179 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Continuing to send you strength, TH. (((((hugs)))))


You can call me NIK

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-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25667 | Registered: Aug 2011
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holy Hell. I'm so sorry, TH.

Sending hugs and strength your way. (((TH)))


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

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~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7823 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Man TH, this just continues to suck. Whatever you choose to do, I send you mojo.


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Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

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Posts: 52534 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Newlease
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry TH - do you ever just feel like running away?

I'm not sure I would be strong enough to hang on through all this time.

Sending strength and peace.

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry you're still dealing with this TH. You are in my thoughts.


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Posts: 37352 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mergh.

(((TH)))


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Posts: 17758 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know your D deal sucks TH, but what do YOU want to do? Do you want to appeal?

I feel for you.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5521 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Merlin
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Early on, some time after I filed and life got dark, one of my wise friends told me that 'divorce is forever'.

I didn't know that it was a curse with no way to break the spell.


"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence

Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11


Posts: 1164 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: East Coast
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

my attorney wants me to set up a face-to-face meeting with XWW to discuss the ordered division of the farm.

my offer still stands to wear my bitch shoes and stand behind you holding my baseball bat. just saying...


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Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know that the division of the farm was 1) a huge hit financially, and 2) a huge hit emotionally because of the family history, etc., BUT ... is it worth it to fight it? Despite the significance, would it be easier to write it off as a garbage removal fee and move on away from the poison?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13784 | Registered: Jul 2011
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, October 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ama, I'm not fighting the division of the farm. I can't. Legally, since I foolishly put her name on the deed, it became marital property. According to the original order, it became a "gift". So now we have to split it. I don't have to like it, but I've come to accept it.

It's the rest of the settlement that is unfair, and, according to my lawyer, contrary to the statute.

I'll talk to him on Tuesday, find out how much it will cost to appeal, and maybe get a second opinion before I move forward.


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5179 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
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