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User Topic: Mid-life crisis
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you Pass!
Buttt... Nothing of her on you canvas. She doesn't deserve it, and you know that. Tat away for you :).

Update 09/28/14
Me - BS, 44
Him - WH, 46
Married - 23 years
D-Day - 05/12/2012
Trying to find me still
Gotta do this, but I'm broken - headed for divorce - 02/20
Hell if I know - 02/24
Divorcing 09/28/14

Posts: 230 | Registered: May 2012 | From: KY
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IrishLass, this totally nailed it:

I really learned to love me because I had no fear that what I was doing or saying would "let someone else down".

I've ALWAYS felt like I was letting her down. She was critical of everything I did, and (I've just discovered) terribly insecure. I remember when my software rep told me I was the best programmer for that software in the country. I was very proud, and immediately told her.

Her response: "The only reason I'm not better than you (she is technologically inept, and has never programmed anything in her life; that's how I caught her cheating!), is because I haven't chosen to try to be good at it!"

She was a sheer pleasure to be around! Is it any wonder my esteem was down the shitter?

[This message edited by pass at 5:44 PM, October 12th (Saturday)]

Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous

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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!! How funny are our WS. Butting their nose into business they chose not to be a part of.

I may take a page out of your book. Tattoo number 2 coming up!


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