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User Topic: Text messages you'd like to send
cuppacoffee
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Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me to the skankface:

Hey b@tch! I hope you are enjoying that wedding with your bf today. I hope hearing the vows reminds you of how you helped another man break his vows because you were selfish skank. I hope you get so drunk you're real self shows to your bf. Maybe he'll finally see the skankface you are.

Who and want would you like to send?


I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 360 | Registered: May 2013
sad34
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Member # 40358
Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To ditch pig

Can't believe you could get upset at my wh for cheating on u with his wife. When u were sleeping with so many other people. U r a nasty bitch, who doesn't care about her kids and who would rather drink and do drugs. I'm better then u in every way possible so take that smug look off your face. U r alone and will always b alone!


Bs: me 32 WH: 36
Dday: July 2012
LTA: 4years (ea, pa)
Dd-4. Ds-2
My life is shattered unsure about R

Posts: 138 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: canada
emotionalgirl
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Member # 40184
Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ummmm...gotta confess I actually sent the text message telling her to own up to her actions and admit that she wasn't an innocent friend and that she wanted my husband and my life. I also asked her why if she was so invested in HELPING WH with his marriage she would sit beside him while he lied about where he was and who he was with. Told her that WH said she was lonely and that if she put as much effort into pursuing a nice single man as she did my WH maybe she wouldn't be so lonely. These are just the highlights!

I was a bit pissed and angry at the time and this was after discovering texts form her after he told me repeatedly they were NC.

Poor him this WAS the end of his friendship EA....she didn't take kindly to his wife making herself known!


1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

Posts: 369 | Registered: Aug 2013
LeopoldB
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Member # 40606
Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To OM,

I read in the newspaper that you died alone in a hospice from colon cancer. Hmmm.

On the other hand, there was an ad for brisket on sale at Kroger... $1.49 lb for whole untrimmed. Woohoo!

Regards,

BS


Posts: 184 | Registered: Sep 2013
headdesk
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Member # 40787
Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I get you wanting to screw me over. You have no morals or boundaries, so that isn't a shocker. What really makes me want to pound your face in is that you were willing to harm both my and your children in order to satisfy your selfishness. That is what is completely unforgivable. I hope that when they're older, your kids have the opportunity to separate from you and heal from all the damage you've caused them. I hope they have the strength to leave you to rot in your own mess, you unfit waste of breath of a mother.


Me: 39
WH: 42
DDay:Sep 19 2013 (only TT of EA)
Oct 4th 2013 revealed PA through snooping.
Marred 16 years, together for 20. Looking to R at this time. We have awesome kids (12/14).

Posts: 273 | Registered: Sep 2013
HeartStings
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Member # 38017
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me to the Shanghai prostitute:

Hey, you ugly troll. Did you really think my husband would give up more than 1/2 his assets, 1/3 of his future earnings, and his inheritance, and walk away from his children to marry you and raise your illegitimate brat?! Bwahahahaha! Whores are a dime a dozen in your filthy city. Next time, target a single guy. You're getting a little long in the tooth to waste another 4 years.


Posts: 109 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: New England
Tripletrouble
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Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I only have maybe 30 of the phone numbers, but...let's see.....

Hi whore! Do your friends,kids, neighbors, coworkers, or husband know you're a skank on AFF? You are worth nothing but the sum of your body parts. I hope you burn in hell for your part in destroying marriages and the lives of children. I hope your junk rots from all the diseases you carry until it falls off. Fuck you.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 615 | Registered: May 2013
Tripletrouble
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Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PS... Thanks cuppa for the post. I feel better getting that off my chest.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 615 | Registered: May 2013
niaveone
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Member # 40317
Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How's life working out for you?

(her life is coming apart and now everyone in town knows exactly what a whore her AND her husband are. She's a laughing stock and the sad part is, she's too narcissistic to realize it)


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 16 years
2 children
2 DDays

Posts: 193 | Registered: Aug 2013
devasted30
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Member # 39439
Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LeopoldB

Posts: 907 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
SeeThingsNow1
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Member # 38241
Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

did a big LOL at leopold too hahahaha....

Posts: 106 | Registered: Jan 2013
SeeThingsNow1
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Member # 38241
Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did send an email, though got no response, and told her I would find her and her husbands address and copy the emails I had and send them, to every name matching hers until hopefully I got the right one LOL... after i sent this email-I went to the trolling game "room" where she liked going ( telling all she was single and hitting on men ) and saw her at one point writing to one her buddies how stressed she was and wished the room was like it used to be lol I had gone in and outed her to all her friends she was lying to...they tried to defend her until I told them I had the emails and send my your address, and I will show you...she has since disappeared or made a new name or went on to another place...I just know she isnt in that room under her old name and I kinda hope her hubby got the mail I sent and beat her to a pulp, as she told my hubby she couldnt talk to him on the phone as her husband was abusive and she was afraid....lol...yeah riiiiight...

Posts: 106 | Registered: Jan 2013
suposd2btheonly1
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Member # 40753
Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I actually sent the messages and all the hateful things I wanted to say to her. If she doesn't feel like a terribly rotten, nasty, filthy whore from what I tried to drill in her head than there's no hope for her. I told her bosses and her Dad and made sure she knew that everyone around her knew she was a dirty little slut.

I didn't care then and I don't care now. She deserved to hear from me all those times (I text her hourly the first 2 days while she was at work reminding her she was a useless waste of space).

I just didn't hold anything back, her and WH opened up a whole new box of crazy when they slept together


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
topperoff22
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Member # 40762
Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey bitch, this isn't Sister Wives, so stay ten states away because I'm not sharing.


BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
topperoff22
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Member # 40762
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Or:

"How's it feel to learn your husband fathered the baby that 16-year old girl you sick freaks took into your home just gave birth to? Karma's a bitch, isn't it?"


BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
topperoff22
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Member # 40762
Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can't believe you could get upset at my wh for cheating on u with his wife.

Tell me about it. The OW, who I call bitch whore, put on her FB a bunch of crap about she was a scorned woman. She put it as a public feature that anyone could see. Not sure if this is about WH or about her husband who just fathered a child with a 16-year old girl they took into their home as "an adopted daughter"!!!!


BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I actually typed out the NC text. W sent it, IIRC.


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9742 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Ostrich80
Member
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 3:22 AM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear c***face, I hope you get your black heart ripped, shreaded, treaded, stomped until you cry so hard you blow snot bubbles out your nose


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4710 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Zayda1
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Member # 35387
Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On Dday I sent her a text that read:

I am better than you in all ways. I'm a better mother, wife, friend and lover than you can ever dream of being. You are sick and need professional help.

She sent me a text back saying:.

I know, I've been in therapy for a year.

[This message edited by Zayda1 at 7:40 AM, October 13th (Sunday)]


Married 9 years, together for 11 years
2 children (7 years & 4 years)
Discovery of PA 04/15/12 (It only lasted a "couple of weeks" but it still shattered my world.)

Posts: 458 | Registered: Apr 2012
deepbluesky
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Member # 38671
Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey Skank - how does it feel to be dumped by two men so close together? Are you happy that you threw away your marriage for a man that doesn't want you?


I know that her BS divorced her shortly after dday due to her affair and the fact that she would not commit to their marriage, she wanted to be with my hubby...didn't work out as she planned.


BS - 44
WH - 46
Married 13 years together 16 years
D-Day 23/01/13
Working on it...

Posts: 36 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Canada
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