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User Topic: WH texted that he's going on a date... :-(
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sean is right , he sounds like such an immature a--hole! please stop letting him have power to make you think you caused this or didn't try hard enough. He is a liar and you deserve better keep your head up and stay focused , oh and no contact or response! at all and you will get through this.

"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

Posts: 622 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today I went to give the cats food, as he's broke. He wasn't there.
What is right on the table right where I always set down the food, but a love note to him from some girl, saying "I love you" and everything.
So unless that happened since oct when he told me, he was clearly dating prior to the "I'm dating" text. Super manipulation, one way or another.

Posts: 103 | Registered: Aug 2013
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So you guys been married 5 years? Are you posting from Kazakhstan? Is your husband’s name Borat? Based on his actions I naturally assume he’s 13 years old at the MOST so he married at 8...
Dropping hints, leaving love-letters…
So broke he can’t buy a can of cat-food but goes out on a date? Guess the new woman was really impressed!

You deserve a real person.

"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus

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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I'm sure he's not paying for her on the date.

The annoying part is manipulating me, texting me 2 or 3x per day saying how badly he feels about things, why can't we talk etc (see previous posts), he cares about me...just out of the blue. I doubt he's being honest w her about that, and he is, then she's a sad case for actively letting it happen.

It's more and more evident w D is the right thing, not that it makes it easier, yet at least.

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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What an immature jackass! Seeing someone behave like such a complete asshole yet seem so completely unaware at how horrible they are being is quite the mind-f*.

Of course he wants to talk. It gives him the opportunity to try to manipulate you into responding the way he wants and if you don't, it gives him the opportunity to hurt and punish you to make himself feel better. A win/win for him and lose/lose for you, just the way he likes it.

Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

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