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User Topic: A NB for me!!!!
million pieces
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I used to run and be pretty good at a local level. I pretty much gave racing up when my ex left, my kids were 4 and 7 and too young to be left alone and I certainly didn't have the money for a sitter for training. Well, now that they are older and I can sneak runs in when they are on playdates and at school, I've been able to run a bit more. Sooooo, this weekend I ran my first race (1/2 marathon) in almost 4 yrs! I didn't come close to my PR, but I ran under 2 hrs which was my goal. The Baltimore Half was so much fun! I'd never imagined I'd be cheered on by so many cigarette smoking old men and step on a dead rat and then gummy bears and have to scrape them from my shoes. Post race crabs and beer were an awesome touch too! I feel like I'm getting the last part of my life back on track

Just had to post this pic, can you eat a crab standing up in the rain?


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 12
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

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cmego
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go million pieces!!! Great photo


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome, million!!!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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Random thoughts
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're glowing in the picture!!! Congrats on running again and working that time set goal!


Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW

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fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You go girl!


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bravo!

-t2g


BH - no longer 48
3 DD's - (27, 24 and 17)
Divorced on 8/6/09

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LeopoldB
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great pic.

You had me at "step on a dead rat".


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 11:50 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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Default  Posted: 5:21 AM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome photo, I have a big smile on my face reading your post, thanks for sharing and congrats!!


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE THIS!! You are gorgeous!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How awesome is this!! Good for you!!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! That was a great time and not even a PR! I saw the photo before I read the post and thought "Baltimore! " because not many races have crab at the finish line.

BTW, you look marvelous!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


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