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User Topic: Saying goodbye to Mom
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Holding you and your mom close. I'm glad you feel at peace but I understand how hard this part of the journey is.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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JKL Vikings
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))
Prayers coming up from Texas. I am glad you have peace


Her- Alpha Female 40
Me-FWH 41
Married since '02, together since 2000
D-day 2/10/2009
3 sons- J- born Oct 2001
K- born Sept. 2005
L- born Apr. 2008
We ALL have issues. It's how we deal with them that makes the difference

Posts: 515 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Dallas, TX
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((nik)))) My heart goes out to you. I know how hard it is to sit and hold a loved ones hand knowing you are saying goodbye here.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9652 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you all my love and peaceful thoughts. (((NIK)))


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16397 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Nik. (((HUGS))) I pray this time will offer a peaceful passing.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9283 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry NIK. I will pray for her peaceful passing.

((((NIK and family))))


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7021 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) My thoughts are with you.


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24341 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Posts: 1345 | Registered: Sep 2007
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A lot on your plate right now....

(((NIK & family)))


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9757 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK and family))


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

Posts: 2177 | Registered: Feb 2010
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not

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cmego
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK)))))


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4021 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh NIK, I am soooo terribly sorry. I lost my Mom on Mother's Day (of ALL days ) this year. Even when you know their time is near, it is still heartbreaking. I was also there and held my Mom's hand. All you can do is to let her know you love her and are with her.

(((NIK & family)))


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2440 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK and family)))))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15360 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) what a tough decision for your dad to have to had made. keeping you and your family in my thoughts.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12124 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

I vividly remember sitting at my own mother's bedside and saying goodbye. It was heartbreaking. I still miss her


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17605 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
unfound
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

holding you close in my heart NIK


ka-mai
*******************
From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14810 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17093 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for you and your family. I was there, two years ago, with my dad. Peace to you and your mom.


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciling after divorce

"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"


Posts: 2077 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thinking of you.


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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