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User Topic: Saying goodbye to Mom
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Holding you and your mom close. I'm glad you feel at peace but I understand how hard this part of the journey is.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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JKL Vikings
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))
Prayers coming up from Texas. I am glad you have peace


Her- Alpha Female 40
Me-FWH 41
Married since '02, together since 2000
D-day 2/10/2009
3 sons- J- born Oct 2001
K- born Sept. 2005
L- born Apr. 2008
We ALL have issues. It's how we deal with them that makes the difference

Posts: 515 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Dallas, TX
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((nik)))) My heart goes out to you. I know how hard it is to sit and hold a loved ones hand knowing you are saying goodbye here.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9688 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you all my love and peaceful thoughts. (((NIK)))


You will have bad times, but they will always wake you up to the stuff you weren't paying attention to. - Robin Williams

Posts: 16774 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Nik. (((HUGS))) I pray this time will offer a peaceful passing.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9458 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry NIK. I will pray for her peaceful passing.

((((NIK and family))))


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7024 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) My thoughts are with you.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24413 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Posts: 1345 | Registered: Sep 2007
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A lot on your plate right now....

(((NIK & family)))


fBH (me) - 70, fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9909 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK and family))


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

Posts: 2208 | Registered: Feb 2010
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not

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cmego
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK)))))


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4099 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh NIK, I am soooo terribly sorry. I lost my Mom on Mother's Day (of ALL days ) this year. Even when you know their time is near, it is still heartbreaking. I was also there and held my Mom's hand. All you can do is to let her know you love her and are with her.

(((NIK & family)))


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2447 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK and family)))))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) what a tough decision for your dad to have to had made. keeping you and your family in my thoughts.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12144 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

I vividly remember sitting at my own mother's bedside and saying goodbye. It was heartbreaking. I still miss her


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17605 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
unfound
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

holding you close in my heart NIK


ka-mai
*******************
From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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SerJR
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17093 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for you and your family. I was there, two years ago, with my dad. Peace to you and your mom.


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciled after divorce

"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"


Posts: 2088 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thinking of you.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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