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User Topic: Saying goodbye to Mom
tesla
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry nik, but happy that you are able to sit with her and tell her everything that needs to be said.

((((nik and family))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4546 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
dameia
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nik)))

I will keep your family in my prayers.


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


Posts: 1099 | Registered: Jul 2012
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK & family)))

Posts: 1210 | Registered: Feb 2010
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, you've been so kind to me over the past couple of years. Your post left me in tears. You and your entire family will be in my prayers. You are such a loving, compassionate daughter.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2656 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry NIK.

Mom and I made a similar decision with/for Dad 3 1/2 years ago. How lucky we were to hold his hand, each of us, and tell him it was ok to go.

And he did.

(((((NIK)))))


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1149 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((HUGS))) I'm so sorry to hear this


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5825 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
TrustNoOne
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holding you up in prayer this evening. Prayer that God covers your Mom in His love and grace; and that He provides you strength and courage to face the days ahead.

May God bless you all.


Posts: 1320 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: SoCal
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK))))))

Thoughts and prayers


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4131 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
click4it
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((NIK)))))))

I'm so sorry hun. Please feel my virtual hugs to you. They are filled with warmth and a ton of compassion. My heart so goes out to you. Glad you are able to be there with her.

Much Love,
Click


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25509 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) It's a very difficult thing to do, but also a very blessed thing to be able to hold that hand and let them go.

Big hugs. She will always be with you.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17132 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
truthsetmefree
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((nik))))

Posts: 7682 | Registered: May 2005
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:10 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{{{NIK}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7694 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK))))


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2605 | Registered: Jan 2010
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 12:50 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
"Not my monkeys. Not my circus." ~Polish proverb (<~~~ as a codependent person, this comes in handy sometimes!)

Posts: 3880 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 1:29 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keeping you in my thoughts.
(((NIK)))


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3215 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 5:13 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Nik))

My thoughts are with you and you mom. Dying is hard work for everyone involved.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7424 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, sending peace and strength for all you are going through at this time.

(((NIK and family)))


Growing forward

Posts: 1752 | Registered: Sep 2011
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK & Mom)))


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13647 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Bigger
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK Ė sending you warm thoughts and prayers.


"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus

Posts: 5484 | Registered: Sep 2005
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family))) I feel for you, I really do. A few years back, I had to make the decision to remove my Dad from life support. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. I wish you strength.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7118 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
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