Topic: Saying goodbye to Mom
Member # 34697
| Posted: 7:55 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
I'm sorry nik, but happy that you are able to sit with her and tell her everything that needs to be said.
((((nik and family))))
Posts: 4037 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 36072
| Posted: 8:13 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
I will keep your family in my prayers.
"People who live in a glass house have to answer the door" -Karl Pilkington
Posts: 941 | Registered: Jul 2012
Member # 27428
| Posted: 8:30 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
(((NIK & family)))
Posts: 904 | Registered: Feb 2010
Member # 33338
| Posted: 8:43 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
NIK, you've been so kind to me over the past couple of years. Your post left me in tears. You and your entire family will be in my prayers. You are such a loving, compassionate daughter.
Him, 39 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.
Posts: 2392 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
|Grace and Flowers|
Member # 34431
| Posted: 8:51 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
I'm sorry NIK.
Mom and I made a similar decision with/for Dad 3 1/2 years ago. How lucky we were to hold his hand, each of us, and tell him it was ok to go.
And he did.
I'm Happy, not Sad!
Posts: 1098 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
Member # 25001
| Posted: 9:10 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
(((HUGS))) I'm so sorry to hear this
Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Him - (Doesn't matter)
D-Day June 12th 2008, D-Day #2 Sept 28th
D-Day #3 Feb 15th & 16th 2010, D-Day #4 Nov 29th 2010
Posts: 5086 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Member # 16591
| Posted: 9:15 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
Holding you up in prayer this evening. Prayer that God covers your Mom in His love and grace; and that He provides you strength and courage to face the days ahead.
May God bless you all.
Posts: 1284 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: SoCal
Member # 15584
| Posted: 10:00 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
Thoughts and prayers
happiness is a direction, not a place.
Posts: 3862 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 209
| Posted: 10:26 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
I'm so sorry hun. Please feel my virtual hugs to you. They are filled with warmth and a ton of compassion. My heart so goes out to you. Glad you are able to be there with her.
Two boys: 16 and 13
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25494 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Member # 20150
| Posted: 10:53 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
(((NIK))) It's a very difficult thing to do, but also a very blessed thing to be able to hold that hand and let them go.
Big hugs. She will always be with you.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Celebrating 60 years on Earth
Posts: 16480 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 7168
| Posted: 11:05 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
When you become willing to give up the idea of the fairy tale prince, you no longer have to kiss frogs - or eat poison apples...or be locked away in castles...or even be home by midnight.
Posts: 7649 | Registered: May 2005
Member # 34823
| Posted: 11:10 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 7043 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Member # 27148
| Posted: 11:20 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013|
Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†
Posts: 2230 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 32753
| Posted: 12:50 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013|
(((NIK and family)))
Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Posts: 3706 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Member # 16590
| Posted: 1:29 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013|
Keeping you in my thoughts.
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert
Posts: 3153 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
Member # 22870
| Posted: 5:13 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013|
My thoughts are with you and you mom. Dying is hard work for everyone involved.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 6772 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 33457
| Posted: 10:30 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013|
NIK, sending peace and strength for all you are going through at this time.
(((NIK and family)))
Posts: 1411 | Registered: Sep 2011
Member # 14003
| Posted: 10:32 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013|
(((NIK & Mom)))
"Some of us don't see people how they are, but how we need them to be".....quote from Uncertainone
Posts: 13280 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Member # 8354
| Posted: 2:40 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013|
NIK Ė sending you warm thoughts and prayers.
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
Posts: 5277 | Registered: Sep 2005
Member # 15300
| Posted: 3:22 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013|
(((NIK and family))) I feel for you, I really do. A few years back, I had to make the decision to remove my Dad from life support. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. I wish you strength.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
Posts: 6859 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
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