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User Topic: Saying goodbye to Mom
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending my prayers with you. You were there for me with hugs and support, so I am here for you. It is hard but she knows you are there with all your family. She can hear you, so speak loving words and let her know it is okay to leave here to go home as you have been. You are a great daughter and I am so glad you get to be with her.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012

Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong


Posts: 2727 | Registered: Aug 2011
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, NIK. I hope things go as peacefully as possible for you all. Many blessings to you all.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6489 | Registered: Jan 2011
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry NIK

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Your mom is lucky to have you by her side. She raised a wonderful woman.

(((NIK)))


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3822 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending hugs and prayers to you, and your family.

I just spent a week with my beloved aunt, and I am grateful for that time.

May your Mom find the peace and love on the other side.

(((nik)))


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1290 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
welcome14
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was blessed to spend the last few days with my mom as well, and I am so glad I had the opportunity. We had a very difficult relationship when I was younger, and I was able to let go of a lot of that as I waited with her for her to let go and move to a better place. It was very cathartic for both of us, I believe. Prayers for you in this difficult time, and I hope you find peace and closure.


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


Posts: 1207 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My thoughts and prayers are with you Nik.


There is life on the other side of hell.

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Tawnee1969
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Default  Posted: 3:11 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is a special thing about loved ones. If you are holding their hand you don't need words. Love, thoughts and feeling travel through osmosis and are received and welcomed.

No actual words need to be spoken,


Is the f*cking you're getting, worth the f*cking you're getting?

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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Sending prayers.


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

Posts: 1449 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:15 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((NIK))))))))))

Keeping you and your family in my prayers.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5161 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you, NIK; I know it's a tough time.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20221 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
macakipa
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry NIK. Thinking of you and keeping you and your family in my prayers.


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, sweetheart, I am so sorry. I lost my mum a few years ago now and was able to be with her as she passed, and in the days leading to that day.

It is still a great source of comfort to me that I was there with her at such a special time.

Please lean on people as much as you can in the coming days.

I am here day and night if you need to talk. Grief is a special form of madness.

Much love to you.


Posts: 154 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Australia
cass
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Such a hard place to be.

(((NIK)))


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all. You have no idea how comforting it is to know so many people have my family in their thoughts.

Several siblings are heading home this weekend, hoping to see Mom one last time and hold Dad up in the final days. I will be heading back on Sunday for another visit as well.

Arrangements have been made for her services, her obituary has been drafted, and photos have been gathered and scanned to share with those who come to mourn.

Our attention is now turning from the bothersome but necessary logistics to the memories, stories, and legends that Mom is leaving in her wake. We are sharing laughter, eye rolls, inside jokes, and bittersweet tears: celebrating the life of a remarkable and singular woman.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik & family))) Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.

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Faithsurviver
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))

My father just passed away on Wednesday afternoon, I was with him when he took his last breath

Just before he passed, I told him that we loved him, that he was the best son, husband, father, grandpa, and great grandpa we could ever have
I assured him that our mother would be fine with three grown children to look after her, that his request to "go home" could now happen because the door was open and his loved ones were waiting for him

I stroked his cheek and forehead while holding his hand, soft classical music was playing.

It was so peaceful and I feel so blessed to be there when he went to be with God <3<3<3


BW (me) 51
XWH 53, but acts like a 15 y/o
M 18 yrs
DS 16, DD 14 (on D-day)
EA,PA with OW, 30 yrs his jr.
DDay 11/30/09 (DS's B-day), WH moved out 4 days later.
I filed for D-1/29/10,
DIVORCED 10/22/10
You can't reason with an NPD!!!

Posts: 337 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Midwest
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Faithsurvivor))))) So sorry for your loss. It sounds like you gave him an amazing gift in his last moments.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

celebrating the life of a remarkable and singular woman
.

And I see those exact same qualities in you.

(((((NIK& Family)))))


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


.. sending prayers to you NIK and family..

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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